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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
It's a bad sign, yes, but a one word answer of "lame" sounds kind of passive aggressive imo. There are plenty of legitimate reasons a person can't make a date. If it happens once I'll just tell them I understand and to text me when they want to hang out. If it happens twice then the lame text seems more appropriate.
I have never had a girl be proactive in actually making plans for a first date. That is why it is bad. Even if she had a genuine reason for cancelling, having to put responsibility in her hands for initiating the first date diminishes chances of it ever happening.
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From a female point of view, if a guy doesn't try to kiss you or do anything physical on a first date, would that put you off speaking to him again?
I mean for a good first date where you got on well and enjoyed each others company the entire time.