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Originally Posted by 0desmu1
very good opener. bad follow through imo. i smelled the desperation for her approval from here.
she responded very well to your first message because you took charge. you were going to lead her on this awesome adventure. and then you put her on the pedestal by saying the fun will depend on HER definition of perfect. she definitely loses respect after you said that and this is evident in her second response. your last ditch effort to continue the conversation is really desperate and you're basically asking her permission to continue.
it's all good though cuz you got the right vibe in the beginning. be aware of what it feels like and continue working on THAT. that is going to be your a-game. be in that state when you talk to girls and you will always be the one leading.
edit: but them legssss. i would lose my cool 100% too
Makes sense. Kinda follows with the date theory.
Never say "I don't know honey, what do you want to do"
Always "We're going here, and here, and we're going to have a great time doing that because, etc."
Here's another convo, here I am not taking charge again. This is from about an hour ago.
me
12/8/2012 6:29:47 PM
I'm luring girls to my house with candy,which do you prefer m&ms or gummy bears?
her
12/8/2012 6:36:09 PM
Definitely gummy bears
lol
me
12/8/2012 6:38:11 PM
Need an address? ;-0
her
12/8/2012 6:39:59 PM
Mmmmm not yet I need to know a little bit about my kidnapper
me
12/8/2012 6:45:58 PM
I guess I can't be tall, dark and mysterious forever
Tell me what you wanna know
her
12/8/2012 8:11:35 PM
Where exactly do you live in tampa.
She just messaged me back 30 minutes ago. What's my response?