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I shut down my OKC profile last week when SG said she was a little bit hurt that I ****ed her Saturday / Sunday and then went and ****ed IG Sunday evening. She said girls want to feel special and that she doesn't feel that special now. I told her I don't want to hurt her and as a gesture of good faith nuked the profile.

As such, unless something changes and SG and I don't work out, my TRs are going to become more and more uneventful: "Had dinner, ****ed all night", "did this, ****ed", ad infinitum.

You contradicted yourself again, I hope it isn't a symptom of the drinking. Are you going to have a three hour phone conversation before your brodate?

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02-16-2014 , 04:44 PM

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AnonymousTextField

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You contradicted yourself again, I hope it isn't a symptom of the drinking. Are you going to have a three hour phone conversation before your brodate?

Why do you care? It's a symptom of a fluid situation. TR are usually epic tales. TRs of a girl I'm interested in and might be rapidly moving toward an exclusive situation are not epic IMO. A brodate TR with myself and guys (or girls, ahem, gorie) from here would likely be categorized as epic. At any rate, you're entitled to believe what you want to believe. You think it's all BS, I know it's all real life. And no, no 3 hr phone convo on my brodate as I'm not interested in ****ing them and given that we are men there's no need to establish familiarity and a sense of comfort.

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02-16-2014 , 05:07 PM

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Hedonism_Bot

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Why do you care? It's a symptom of a fluid situation. TR are usually epic tales. TRs of a girl I'm interested in and might be rapidly moving toward an exclusive situation are not epic IMO. A brodate TR with myself and guys (or girls, ahem, gorie) from here would likely be categorized as epic. At any rate, you're entitled to believe what you want to believe. You think it's all BS, I know it's all real life. And no, no 3 hr phone convo on my brodate as I'm not interested in ****ing them and given that we are men there's no need to establish familiarity and a sense of comfort.

Whoa, whoa. You are a "depraved hedonist" and "a complete and utter freak that is determined to tear the universe apart at the seams and rape it, repeatedly" so lets not rule anything out.

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02-16-2014 , 05:14 PM

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AnonymousTextField

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Whoa, whoa. You are a "depraved hedonist" and "a complete and utter freak that is determined to tear the universe apart at the seams and rape it, repeatedly" so lets not rule anything out.

Yes, I'm coming to realize that I am. It's all part of the recovery process of being a dysfunctional alcoholic, rediscovering myself. I'm not gay though which is why I have no issue with hanging out in gay bars or doing brunch at places in gay neighborhoods. In fact I find the community fascinating, it's like a real life Sodom and Gomorrah. Last week at brunch SG was telling the gay guy next to us at the bar that she wouldn't blow me until monogamy. He was "Whhhaaaatttt?!? In my community a BJ is like a handshake!" I burst out laughing.

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02-16-2014 , 06:18 PM

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crimedopay420

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Timmy at this point I think it would probably improve this thread.

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02-16-2014 , 06:31 PM

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wutangpoker

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Girls hate clinginess. In other news, water wet

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02-16-2014 , 06:39 PM

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CCuster_911

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She isnt that good looking, but if that is the look you like, you should move to Austin. Girls like her are a dime a dozen.

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02-16-2014 , 06:52 PM

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wutangpoker

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While I'm at it okcupid.com/profile/lalucertola is another girl I'm very into. Messaged her once, got no reply.

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02-16-2014 , 07:03 PM

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CCuster_911

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If she rides she rides.

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02-16-2014 , 07:15 PM

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Kenny Bania

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Wutang, you definitely have unique tastes if those are the girls you are ranking as your top picks. If you don't like Austin, then move to Berlin. Plenty of girls like that here. In general I match up very highly with them (by OKC percent) but they don't go for me too much (at first glance I look very mainstream).

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02-16-2014 , 07:33 PM

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El Diablo

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wu,

You would LOVE girls in SF.

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02-16-2014 , 07:46 PM

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Maybe use the situation to work on your ability to arrange a sex-as-the-primary-activity date? Like, make it clear through text or phone convo that your primary or only interest is in ****ing her, that the 1 drink or w/e at a bar is just filler, and see how it goes.

I suggested we "pick up where we left off" and she said "we'd have to pick up someplace that's not my parents' driveway" We're goin to a cool Irish pub on Thurs. She suggested the Thursday after I put up a day so hopefully that means parents are gone but if not I'm not sure where I'm gonna try to smash(don't have hotel $$ yet)

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02-16-2014 , 08:01 PM

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LT22

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Bobbo, pretty much any time you tell a girl you're moving and she still wants to go out, she's gonna be willing to smash. You actually have it so good if all you want to do is get laid as you can find out the answer without asking directly.

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02-16-2014 , 08:17 PM

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CCuster_911

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Wutang likes em hipster. These are two of my favs of all time. Both viewed me but didn't respond

I am about 99% positive this was a fake profile. I think I have seen it before. And her wearing a thong in this pic.

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02-16-2014 , 08:40 PM

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KPowers

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derpderpderpp on okcupid

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02-16-2014 , 08:46 PM

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I thought it was legit. Profile's pretty specific. She's been around for at least 6 months now and never responded or trolled me in any way so I don't know what the end game is unless it's a guy tryin to steal openers. Some pretty incredible pics of DAT ASS in the profile.

EDIT:ninja'd

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02-16-2014 , 09:10 PM

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capone0

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not many legit girls i know post things like this.

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02-16-2014 , 09:14 PM

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wutangpoker

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Hell I'm just gonna start posting the profiles here and asking you guys what you would say.

okcupid.com/profile/221bstreet

okcupid.com/profile/the_coquette

okcupid.com/profile/khwerner

okcupid.com/profile/TheAmynator

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02-16-2014 , 09:18 PM

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CCuster_911

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Shes also a bisexual page, probably a creepy guy attempting to get nudes from girls.

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02-16-2014 , 09:21 PM

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LT22

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Wut,

The third one is my type. Let me message her instead LOL.

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02-16-2014 , 09:35 PM

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wutangpoker

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Wut,

The third one is my type. Let me message her instead LOL.

I actually had been having a convo with her. It fizzled, now I'm considering reopening

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02-16-2014 , 09:38 PM

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wutangpoker

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okcupid.com/profile/mleanna is quite hot as well

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02-16-2014 , 09:50 PM

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NLSoldier

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3rd one is hot, rest seem incredibly meh

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02-16-2014 , 09:59 PM

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wutangpoker

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3rd one is hot, rest seem incredibly meh

Second one is hot too but she took down her pictures that showed her face.

I'd say those are the hottest five online now that I haven't been on a date with

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