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Originally Posted by El Diablo
knives,
You seem to be confusing **** online dating with hetero online dating.
It's not really that simple -- yeah Grindr exists and if you're looking for that it's like shooting fish in a barrel. But on a site like OKC I try to lean towards the hetero style because a lot of good ones will get turned off instantly if they suspect you're just in it for a hookup, even if they are just in it for a hookup too. They want to be loved for their intellect and all that ****, plus on the off chance that you can make them interested where at first they didn't like you based on looks, it gets you in the door in a spot you couldn't have had if you take the Grindr approach.
Unless they're obvious about their intentions after a few messages, I just try to get it to a live date so I can get a better read and go from there.