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Originally Posted by PointlessWords
Her telling you that you’re the guy she likes the most is her way of letting you know she’s getting ****ed by someone else. She prob is the kinda person who gets anxious by the truth and says the opposite to make herself feel better. Which means she prob likes you the least
If you’re hanging out with her on Friday then she likes you the most. Saturday maybe. But if not then she’s hanging out with other guys and she likes that you pay for dinner
I think it’s mix of last 2 posts here. I went on date with her today and we got dinner (she offered to pay but I said I’ll handle it whatever) and we got ice cream after and she paid. We then walked. Lol I tried to hold her hand but she told me her ex bf lives in town we were at lmao. I then asked her about that is text and was like that is really weird: she said she goes on dates with multiple guys and doesn’t want to be seen as skeevy lmao. I dropped her off at her place- no invite lmao.
Yea gotta be honest, I think this chick could have been into me but I came off so poorly on date 1 and 2- she thinks I need therapy yada yada and prolly thinks I’m not the right guy to settle down with long term (aka she’s not going to F me). I’ll do one more dinner with her but like I’m 99% sure it’s going to be me picking her up and taking her back to her place and no sex. After that, I’ll just cut bait. I’m going to vegas next week so should be good. Idk this girl is really awesome and beautiful but I def get vibe she’s not going to want me. It’s quite pathetic bc if I came off well on date 1 and 2- I’m 100% sure she would have been dtf. My fault honestly. Will keep thread posted here but trust it’s not going anywhere- maybe can find something in vegas but idk I’m drained lately with dating.
I went out with other girl and played pickleball- she’s so god damn delightful and nice to me (not as pretty as other girl). Then I go out with chick I find sexy and she’s like kinda nice to me but we don’t even have great convo and I can just tell she can get any guy she wants / prolly dates around a ton. While the other girl doesn’t. It’s just mildly infuriating- only thing I can tell is I def need to see a therapist prolly sadly bc I botch dates so poorly. I think most girls just ghost me on date 1 while a nice girl might tag along for a little. Laughable- please feel free to bash jk here. My self esteem is literally in the gutter.