We grabbed coffee and went on a walk down to the waterfront which was about 6-8 blocks away from where we met, and about 10 blocks total from my car. I went over the hilarious scenario (in my head) of running full sprint away from her on the next stupid thing that she said. I was also waiting in that area for my delivery from the dispensary as well so the day wasn't a complete waste. On our walk back, she suggested that we rent scooters and go for a ride. I told her "Nah I think we're good here. I'm gonna head home now."

She looked so defeated. Completely unselfaware.

Of course you have other things to do, just don't know why you spent more time with her, sprinting away would have been legit hilarious.

Most of them are pretty unselfaware. That's why attitudes like hers are such a toxic combo with that, and entitlement for the triple crown of cromulence.

Anyone noticed how in the last couple of months every other girl seems to love 'The Cereal Box Game'? Was this some sort of recent culture reference or something I'm missing?

A BuzzFeed quiz from a year ago that makes younger millennial/genZ chicks feel "lol.quirky"

Pretty Australian girl opened me on Bumble with 'OMG I know you '

Then went dark when pressed. Infuriating!

Had an ...interesting date last night. Word to the wise, if anyone is on a date with an Italian girl, be ready for a rollercoaster.

So it was all going well and she was showing obvious positive signals until we started chatting to another couple on the table over. The four of us were all conversing amiably and having fun, but when we left she was very standoffish and when I asked what's wrong she said 'I just think we're different, sorry' (We couldn't be more similar). I then said, 'ok, no problem, I had a good time but I understand, good luck for the future' and left her smoking outside.

Then I got back and texted 'Sorry if I upset you tonight, all the best' and she responded 'What did you do this?' so I was like 'Sorry, I don't understand what you mean'. Then she accused me of insulting the girl in the couple (I really didn't) after which she said 'If you didn't like me you had to tell me straight away...not putting up a show' before calling me a 'True coglione' and saying 'You had you chance so byeeee ciaoooo arrivaderci'

Annoying because we had so much in common but I dodged a bullet I guess with that attitude! I would hesitate to put things down to culture purely but I had a couple of dates with another Italian girl very similar to this and just couldn't deal with the drama.

It got me thinking because the online dating world has become so full of emotionless robots who ghost and lose touch and seem to have become disconnected from true humanity, and I start to wonder whether the zest for life and red bloodedness Italians have is what more of the world needs, although clearly in more moderation than what I've witnessed

I wouldn't blame cultural differences, an ***hole is an ***hole, no matter where you're from.

Unless you really did insult the other girl.

Otherwise, you just ran into a weirdo.

Not too hard to do, unfortunately.

Sometimes you can make pretty accurate cultural generalisations.

I've found Spanish girls are the perfect balance between cold, boring and soulless English girls and volatile, unpredictable feisty Italians.

There are a ton of Spanish girls in my office in particular, and nearly all of them are adorable. fun loving and passionate but more restrained than italians while not nearly as snooty and cliquey as the French.

Most of my experience the last few years is with French girls and Latinas and they probably couldn't be further apart on the emotional spectrum. I agree that it's a lot more fun going out with Latinas, and if I could find a more moderate one, it would be perfect. When it's going well with a Latina they have a way of making you feel like a king. I have a more laid back personality and am not argumentative at all, so I feel like I can handle some of the negative emotional swings, and can appreciate that it also adds some spice to the relationship...as long as it's not extreme.

I think I've reached a new level of speed dating insanity.

On Monday, I was supposed to fly Omaha to Dallas and then Dallas to CDMX and arrive around 9PM. Omaha flight ended up delayed so much that I had to spend the evening in Dallas and then fly out super early yesterday morning.

I arrived back to my home in CDMX exhausted at about 12:30PM. I knew I already had a 7PM date lined up, but then a girl who I was really interested in from Tinder hit me up asking me if I'd be available that afternoon. So we agreed to 3PM and I tried to take an hour nap before meeting her.

I'd say it ended up being close to top 5 1st date category for me. She's 25 and looked really cute in person, super easy to talk to, able to discuss a wide variety of topics, and a very cheerful personality. I scouted out the place beforehand and was able to secure some corner seating and it definitely helped. After a bit of time we were touching legs and then I started stroking her hand. At one point pretty early on she said "When I was walking up (to our meeting point), I saw you and I was hoping you were date". So I knew I was doing well.

Got the check and then put my arm around her as were walking away, we only got about 50m and I found a somewhat secluded place, I stopped, grabbed her arm, pulled her into me and kissed her. She told me she really liked that move. If the girl is giving heavy interest then it's super easy to go for the kiss at this point, it's when they're really reserved and I'm not sure where I stand that I fumble around for hours. We then got an ice cream, found a place to sit, made out a bit more, then I had to end the date so I could rest a bit for the 2nd.

Only 2 negative things: she was a bit reserved on the kissing, only closed mouth. And she's also leaving for Montreal for a month on Saturday. I left Thursday open so I asked if she wanted to meet again before leaving and she agreed. I'm hoping we can sleep together and I can leave a lasting impression before she leaves, but it would be a pretty big leap from the type of kisses she was giving, so we'll see.

2nd date, not much to talk about. She's 29 and a really smart girl, but maybe a bit boring. I was on the fence about her looks and she was slightly worse in person. Really nice girl, but not super interesting and not much chemistry. We had a tea and chatted for 80 minutes and then said our goodbyes.

Today is a repeat of the same thing. 2 dates at 1PM and 7PM. Tomorrow I'm meeting the first girl for date 2 and then I have 2 more 1st dates on Friday and Saturday. Might try and go for the double header again Friday if I can find a girl who's available at 1PM. Saturday, the girl really wanted to go to Six Flags, which seems like a bit of a weird first date, but she seems really fun, so I agreed. It has the potential to be an incredible date if we hit it off, but maybe a bit strange if we aren't into each other, although I suppose I can just enjoy the rides and pretend I'm with a friend or something.

So I think I set the record with 4 1st dates in the first 2 days back, with a flight thrown in no less. Feeling a little tired today, but luckily got both girls to agree to come to my area, so I don't have to do much running around.

First 4 girls I'm meeting in order (1PM Tues, 7PM, Tues, 1PM Wed, 7PM Wed):



And here are the Fri and Sat girls. Fri girl isn't the cutest of the bunch but our messaging went really well and we even discussed tantra a bit, so maybe some potential for a really great date. Sat girl is not my usual skinny girl type, but she looks phenomenal and I think I really need to open up my range.

Really enjoy your trip reports. Keep up the good work.

Fossil goat. I enjoy them as well. Keep them coming and keep up the good work. As for your girls: 6>>>>>4>1>>>>3=5>>>>>>>>>>>>2

2 seems like she could be crazy. These comments are strictly for entertainment purposes and arent meant to be taken literally or personally and no offense is meant

Fossilkid,

+1000 Online Dating Points

Fossil,

Friday girl looks like her face may look better when she’s naked (it May match her body better than it matches her outfit)

I understand that sentence!

For some reason some girls look meh when clothed, and then they get nekkid and its like a 100 times better.

But i guess most girls would look better naked.

And i approve of #3 of the first group and ambivalent about the last two.

Can't really go too wrong in any case.

6th girl is best looking and it's not close in my opinion.

I'd like to know in what world Girl 6 isn't "skinny"

fossil is a literal dating machine. reading last few pages and its pretty interesting. some of th girls are just smokin, i dunno if you posted a pic before fossil but are you like a 6'3 stud or what? how do you keep this up

6 looks more athletic/fit with curves which is not the stereotype of 'skinny.' It all depends on your frame of reference. Some guys like 'curvy' girls and when I see photos they look out-and-out overweight/fat to me.

Maybe skinny to him is like 5'8" and 115-120lbs or less or taller.

6 looks great to me.

I saw #3 just now and it went well. Met for a quick coffee, she has a really cute face and is charming, but maybe not quite as interesting as #1 from yesterday. She also about 20 lbs. overweight, which is probably a deal breaker for me. We were making out about an hour after meeting, and she's a really great kisser, so I enjoyed it. Probably would've invited her back to my place, but there wasn't time, maybe this weekend.

I really want to sleep with her, but am not sure any long-term potential is there, so I'm not sure if I'll see her again. Depends how these other dates go I guess.

This is almost exactly how I have it except my preference is more skinny girls so I give 4 the very slight nod over 6.

Ha, 2 could be crazy, but I'll never find out. Date with her last night was kinda meh.

Awesome! Leader in the clubhouse!

Hopefully I'll be able to confirm or deny whether or not this is the case. I agree though that she seems like the one most likely to look better in person than her pics.

I had a feeling 6 would be the consensus fave. I'll post a couple more pics at the end.

YSTW explained it pretty well, but I would consider 6 a normal, fit girl. Skinny I would consider a bit more petite and usually will never have natural curves like girl #6

Well, I just spent 2 weeks in Omaha not really doing much of anything so I was ready to get back on the horse and make out with some hot latinas (2 for 3 so far) and hopefully get laid soon. We'll see if I'm already burnt out by the weekend.

I'm 5'11", but in Mexico that is like 6'3" b/c the competition is 3-4 inches shorter on average. So I get a ton of comments about my height even though I'm not tall.

I also have blue eyes, which adds a point or 2 in Latin America, and objectively I'm probably a 6.5 looks, but in Mexico a white guy who speaks solid Spanish adds another point or 2.


This girl (#6) is really hot, I'm kinda a little intimidated tbh, but we're going to Six Flags so it will be a lot easier to have fun and relax.

That chick is fire Fossil. Straight fire. Have fun and remember that no matter how hot a chick is, there is some guy who can’t stand her. Also never underestimate how hot she thinks you are.

Enjoy your time

Edit: my only concern is she’s got 4 pics and none are without sun glasses really looking into the camera. She may have crazy eyes but it’s worth finding that out in person I think.

LOL at fossil claiming to be intimidated by a first date.

20 lbs is a dealbreaker?

Depends on where it is, and even then its not a dealbreaker necessarily.

Unless its on her neck,
goiters ain't sexy.

What I don't get is 20 pounds overweight is a deal breaker, yet you really want to have sex with her. So, the extra weight is a negative in what way?

Good advice, Nata. I'm sure I'll be fine once the date gets rolling.

Well, I want to have sex with women that I don't necessarily find attractive enough for a LTR. A girl is either LTR material, FWB material, or friend only material. She's probably at the top of the 2nd category and it's mainly that she's a great kisser and has a cute face that I'd like to sleep with her b/c I'm curious. I wouldn't necessarily rule out a LTR if we saw each other again and it went very well.

Part of the problem is I'm pretty skinny at 5'11", 150. Probably the main reason I like skinny girls b/c it seems like a better physical match. It shouldn't be a big deal if a girl weighs more than me if we were both comfortable with it, just like a girl being taller is no big deal, but it's always been a bit of a sticking point for me, and as long as there is an abundance of cute, skinny girls that want to date me, then it would probably take someone really special to change my mind.