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Originally Posted by Malucci
Not only that, but he’s already put her on a pedestal when he hasn’t slept with her...maybe even hasn’t kissed her. He’s not seeing anyone else either. He’s definitely going to blow it with her, and it’s going to be devastating for him, when it shouldn’t be. He’s literally doing everything wrong for the wrong person because he seeks the validation of people he doesn’t even know, the random guys who see him out with her.
That's not what I'm saying. I'm not saying I'm holding off on meeting other women because I'm hung up on hot Russian chick that I haven't kissed. I'm not waiting on the Russian and have no expectation ever to see her again. What I'm saying is the level of attraction I have for her makes me unmotivated to be with my FWB (who is someone else I've been seeing for two months) or these women who have liked me on apps. These are all women who I wasn't that excited about to begin with or I would have immediately liked them back rather than save them as maybes. In the past, I would have met one or two this weekend just to have something to do, but I'm not feeling like it this week. I feel like waiting for someone who really intrigues me physically (and hopefully matches what I'm looking for long term, but I wouldn't turn down just physically). It's more like the Russian has me not wanting to settle to meet women I'm not attracted to just because they're not unattractive and I'm bored. And I'm not saying I'm looking for models. That's not even my type. My physical type is actually nerdy, shortish (5-5'4), skinny, brunette women who didn't realize how cute they were until young adulthood.