I doubt the system is a scam. These users probably did swipe right on you. However, most of the unusually hot ones may certainly be scam users. You should be able to tell by looking at the profiles to see if they said much about themselves and if what they said seems legit.

Huh?

Meet me was mostly scam or undesirable, especially if their location is not that close to you. POF was never my favorite.

They do clear out the scams pretty quickly cause they message so many guys with a phone number or website. You could always wait 24-48 hours to message and see if they disappear.

I wasn’t sure if she thinks we don’t get along , or if she thinks you bang uggos or what the reference was 🤷🏽*♂️

It was just in reference to how Nat had a go at you validating Mlylt in here and then he does the exact same thing.

Ohhhhhhhh...in that context now I understand. Thank you.

Oh yea Rexx doesn’t get that my 2+2 persona is like a politician I don’t stand by anything and yet I stand behind everything in the moment

Well, it's been 2 weeks since I broke up with my gf and I was pretty bummed, but now I feel better. I'm leaving CDMX on Nov. 15 and I'm gonna spend at least 5 weeks in Colombia, possibly more depending if I really like (and if live PLO games are profitable). Some people were asking for a pic of the ex-gf so I'll oblige finally. I told her to pose by that sign so don't just her for that.




I'll probably be hitting Tinder/ColombianCupid really hard while I'm in Colombia. I'm interested to see how it compares to Mexico. Obviously the average girl is much hotter in Colombia, but in CDMX it seemed like even the upper echelon girls were attainable whereas in Colombia I think it will be harder to attract those girls. The gringo effect is kinda played out (at least in Medellín).

Until Nov. 15, I'm planning to grind a ton of poker and save some cash now that I don't really have anything to do. Probably not gonna get back on Tinder, but tonight I reached out to the crazy girl who reached peak craziness in post #44651. Kinda hoping for a low-effort bang. I figure I'm leaving soon anyway, and she was really hot and seemed into me. Of course I'm not gonna lead her on at all, I'm only interested in casual sex and I'll make that clear.

Here is her pic. I like skinny girls so she's like my ideal body type.

Thread just got good again.

How old was ex-gf?

Just turned 37.

Dodged a bullet, she looks 45.

Not good for a Latina.

Maybe one kid and she goes all Jihad and blows up on you.

Lol ok bud, post a picture of the last girl you dated

Update-- I completely misread this situation. I noted in my profile that I was moving to London in a few weeks, it turns out this girl goes to London for work a lot, so she in fact was looking more than just easy sex. We didn't end up hooking up until the 3rd date.

(Side note, I've struggled really hard to meet girls only looking for short term relationships; Fossil I'm really impressed you pull this off. It's ok though, from here on out I'm only living in places I plan to stay or am at least open to staying in, so it's not a skill I really need to build.)

We hung out a bunch during my time here. She's a very sweet girl but I don't think we had quite enough in common to turn this into a going concern.

We said goodbye tonight and she actually cried, which was surprising to me. I used to worry a lot about **** like this and feel bad that I couldn't give them the relationship they want, but I'm trying to remind myself that I'm not responsible for others' emotions. It's just funny though, with some girls it feels like great chemistry and they ghost you after two dates, with others they get hooked early and I have no idea why. I assume I never will.

Nah, her diet was spotless and she stayed really active. My parents did comment that she looks a lot older than me, but that's b/c I'm a young-looking 34. I thought she looked about her age.

I mentioned earlier in the thread that she wasn't one of the more attractive girls I was going out with, but I was hooked by her demeanor when I met her. Unfair or not, I think when a guy is dating an older girl the bar to keep the relationship going is a bit higher. Once cracks started to form and she was a lot more unstable than I first thought I think I was fairly quick to pull the plug. Options are also pretty plentiful in Mexico so I felt like I'd be just fine.

This was more dickish than it needed to be BTW and I'm sorry, but honestly, that girl is in great shape and we are really splitting hairs by putting down her appearance.

She's alright for sure, but Im just saying for a Latina, she's a little older looking.
Some people age great, some of us, not so much.

Same with having kids, Gal Gadot drops a kid and keeps going.Kelly Clarkson drops a couple and gains a few.

I worry about Jessica Simpson.

I never realized Latinas typically aged better.

Themoreyouknow.jpeg!

She looks fine. If wasn't her looks that made Fossil break up with her. Most of the people in this thread would be more than happy getting a woman who looked like her.

This happened to me a few months ago, I had the feeling she was really into me, we'd slept together a few times and I sent her a message saying i didn't see a future. We met up to say goodbye officially and she cried and was super upset, which made me feel terrible. I think it's important to deal with the situation properly if you sense she's really keen and would take it badly. She accused me of stringing her along even though i made it clear throughout I wasn't convinced about long term regardless of the person, but I think she thought she could change my mind.

Anyway it worked out well as she doesn't bear hard feelings any more and we still keep in touch from time to time, which is extremely rare for girls I have previously got involved with.

quick etiquette question: if I'm planning to use a photo with 2 (female) friends on my tinder profile, should I ask their permission first? Feels kinda silly to do this, but also kinda shady not to

You shouldn't even use it in the first place.

really? I saw some people in this thread advising that pictures with girls are a good idea. Also, tons of people have photos with other people on tinder, I just wasnt sure what's the etiquette here.

Compare Raquel Welch to Brigitte Bardot.

If you think there's a chance they'd care, you should probably ask them.