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Originally Posted by Natamus
I will say this about my friend, outside of her trouble with relationships, she’s a catch as a person which makes her relationship drama even more annoying to witness. She works in special education and is fiercely dedicated to those kids and her hard work and effort and love she puts into that job is one of her more attractive personality traits.
But she treats men like she’s waiting for a black Hugh Grant to show up and sweep her off her feet. She then gets horny and bored and takes the best looking guy Day-Day trying to hook up with her. Nothing wrong with that except she’s expecting giving up the booty will make him fall in love and start acting like a doting and attached lover.
But he’s there right now for sex and she’s horny so eventually the sex happens and afterward she’s expecting Prince Charming and he’s expecting her to at least be cool and chill to hang out. She isn’t and she gets clingy and needy and so he bails because she’s not Cool to hang out with and now she’s mad he’s not a black Hugh Grant. Friends all declare she deserves black Hugh Grant and don’t change a thing you’re perfect.
Nothing changes and she spends the next month taking face-only selfies with a few “I’m beautiful just the way I am” body pictures and a bunch of Facebook-friend cheerleading. Next month it will be the same ****, different month.
I just remembered how Hugh Grant got busted with a prostitute and his girlfriend Elizabeth Hurley took him back.
He's had kids with an Asian gal he was having an affair with, then he leaves her to have a kid with another woman.
THEN goes back to the Asian gal and has another kid.
AND THEN gets back with the other woman and has another kid, but then married her.
So it just tickled me you using that guy.
And as an aside, your friend is a size queen and is self hating.
That's not going to change unless she wants to change.
And incredibly, I bet she likes this cycle on some level.
So its not going to change until she wants to do so, or she gets so old/fat that it doesn't work anymore.
Then she's going to be angry with men, never seeing her part in it happening.
I've seen it and after awhile you stop trying to help them and just watch the trainwrecks