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Originally Posted by SpinMeRightRound
Interesting. What do you think has changed since then? Why is it so much tougher these days?
I don't know if it has changed that much, I haven't tried using that site for a long time.
If you mean compared to newer apps younger people use for hookups like tinder, I suspect it's the presence of pictures. When I first started online dating in 1995, almost no one had digital pictures of themselves; you went on a truly blind date. Even in 2004 on AFF, no one had pictures on their profiles, or at least none of their faces, because they didn't want to out themselves as looking for a hookup.
And when I say I was successful, that was maybe with 5 or so women over about a year, and I did have to put in a lot of time and work. You had to message someone quite awhile and get her interest before she agreed to meet. But now I imagine only very good looking guys get much interest and others are filtered out by pictures. Might not be the case on AFF if there still aren't many people who out themselves with face pictures there.