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Originally Posted by Land O Lakes
It was nice if you're Woody from Toy Story. Terrace was nice.
770 is decent. How the hell does she have a credit card with an APR a college kid with little credit history would have?
She wasn't always this way.
Is her vibe like it's no big deal because Christmas is no big deal, or what?
Wtf is this mother/daughter memories bull****? She's 8-years-old. Literally next to worthless to take her to Europe for a week. Have OP dress up like Santa and give her 20 presents is what she really wants. Take her to Europe when she can appreciate it more.
IDK about the card. Like I said, she's never carried any debt except for a car loan and student loan. Maybe she got the card in college and the rate never adjusted? Really have no idea.
I honestly am not sure what her "vibe" was. Have been in a bit of a fog, which is why I think I just need some time to calm down and reflect. As I said, Christmas is a big deal for her. I think she told me via texts that she didn't see why this was so big. "There will be other vacations and Christmases." I think that was a response to asking if this was a one off are are we now doing separate vacations.
I mean, I used to go to Biloxi every 2-3 weekends. It was nice to get out of the **** hole town I live in and the extra money was nice. I haven't gone in three years. I've completely redone my work schedule to spend the afternoons running around with the little girl. I don't mind any of the sacrifices I've made because that's what you do for the people you love. It just hurts to feel like I'm somehow being pushed aside. Like I said, I need some time to calm down and reflect.