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Originally Posted by DodgerIrish
His explanation on the OP being brief makes sense fwiw, we've already extrapolated too much out of that.
You edited, but this part is wrong. My or anyone's incorrect extrapolation is the result of an unnecessarily brief OP that omitted relevant info and changes the light in which things are cast.
In short, it's bad communication.
Now, does he owe OOT good communication? On one hand, no. On the other hand, if he wants to get good advice and be fair about things, then yes. Could this indicate poor communication on his part as well with his fiancee? Yes. Not necessarily, as obviously one's irl communication with one's fiancee is drastically different than one's posting in OOT. But it's an indicator.
Again - not necessarily piling on OP, as it does sound like he is a good guy and sacrifices for them, and from his story, that his fiancee is the one who is in the wrong, initially about communication and accounting for his feelings and perhaps other things. But it does sound like his communication is suspect as well, and that we may still not have full info or it may not be entirely accurate, and that there are things he can do to work on and improve their communication as well.