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Originally Posted by lapka
Do you mean that OP holds on to this relationship because he wants to have kids as fast as possible and feels his clock ticking?
I haven't read every post in this thread. I just saw Thay3r bringing in this aspect.
Dunno about the first one; I don't think he has addressed it.
The convo got started because a guy said OP should immediately bail on his fiancee because he's in his mid-40's and that's a prime age to be swinging your dick around looking for a new mate before it's too late.
All I'm saying is all the people I know/have known who are single in their mid-40's+, male or female, generally make it apparent why they can't make a long-term relationship work just by listening to them speak about general life topics.
It would suck to be mid-40's+ looking for a soulmate. If you don't mind being a middle-aged dude banging randoms from bars (Dom?) like a college frat kid, then I suppose it's moot.
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Originally Posted by JayTeeMe
My friend's dad is 73 years old and has a 9 month old daughter. There's a pretty big difference wrt aging and fertility.
Put it this way: there's probably not very many childbearing-aged women who are going to be willing to have a child with a 73-year-old who's not financially secure.