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Originally Posted by lew189
I apologize if this has been brought up already, I just skimmed the thread.
Is it possible that she met someone when she visited you in Paris? It would certainly explain a lot.
I was almost the first one to say it. I used to work with a guy who caught his wife "cheating" on a business trip to Vancouver. They had met on some dating site years prior. When she went away, he snooped on her email activity (bad move) and saw that she was receiving message notifications from guys on some sort of Ashley Madison type of website. He went there, searched her profile... location said Vancouver, B.C. instead of Vegas.
She swore she was "just bored" and didn't do anything. AFAIK, they're still together.
Lesson Learned.....snooping may confirm your deepest suspicions. But If I was OP, I would be much more concerned with the decision making process of someone willing to max out a card on a $4k overseas getaway with $1,000 to their name. That's one emergency away from being in a really bad spot financially.