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Originally Posted by jmakin
this is really good advice that i wouldnt have thought of
i also want to mention that i'm at a serious risk of relapse of my depression if this falls through.
I don't think I'd do this.
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Congratulations! Let's hope the offer is exactly what you want, and any negotiating is just gravy on top.
For desired salary you might put, "negotiable". If they question you, bring up your research, mention you're open to other types of compensation (if true), have something to counter with.
As Howard said, you shouldn't be worried about putting former salary as a captain down; apples/oranges.
From what you're written about them and yourself, I get the feeling that a technical manager/product owner-type role works well for both of you.
Maybe that should be part of the negotiation/acceptance discussion. Describe your vision for this position -- i.e., mention how you feel that the product doesn't necessarily solve the problems of the actual users, and "here's how I think we should alter course." (Pun intended, although it's terrible).
That last paragraph I'm really not sure if it's a good idea or not.