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Originally Posted by amichele15
But what if these guys are extremely successful guys that have their **** together? I feel like if anything that would motivate me more to keep improving myself and to hold myself to a higher standard.
To put it bluntly, until you get your life together, such guys are out of your league. So they're either going to bail when they get to know you better or there's something wrong with them. Both of these results can be disastrous for you on your path to becoming the person you want to be. This isn't Hollywood, and the successful white knight isn't going to solve your happiness for you. Get your life in shape to the point where you deserve an extremely successful man and then go find one and be happy. You will be way better off that way.
I do not in any way expect you to actually follow this advice though. It's right on the money, but it's extremely difficult to follow.
Last edited by AlexM; 12-30-2012 at 08:33 PM.