You didn't intend it to be brought out? You didn't intend it??? That's a total and complete lie and you know it is.
I have a life. i've had a trainwreck and a meltdown or two on here before, and as ****ed up as I am and irresponsible, nothing can even compare to the total and complete ******ation displayed in this thread. You're a functioning idiot. Take some personal responsibility for once in your ****ing life. My god.
so it was ok to just splash Mark's name all over the internet linking to his arrest record, his addictions problem, his sexual lolstuffs but not for you any more? I mean, you both have done your share and did so in the interest of garnering people's experience (legal advice), to humiliate the other, and general douchetastic attention seeking.
But it's good that you have drawn a line. For everyone else.
My boyfriend has old online dating sites. I do too so I never cared or thought anything of it. Recently though I was on his computer and found him talking/chatting to a bunch of women from these sites. I confronted him, we argued and almost broke up but he apologized and said it would never happen again and he wasn't even sure why he did it. He said it was probably just for his self esteem to have these women be into him like an ego boost. But then I looked more into it later and though he DID stop doing it and I didn't find anything new, I read more into what I had previously found. Not only had he been talking to these girls for over a month, but some of them sent him nude pics and he in return sent pics and a nude pic too. He said he was single and so on. It makes me sick. I am gone for work all day while he is unemployed so I often worry that while I'm away at work he could be (or could have) met up with one or more of these chicks. He says no he never has. I just want people's opinions on this issue. I don't think it bothers me so much, it hurt my feelings but he's stopped since. I just worry about whether I have to worry about what he does when I'm away, whether he could be hiding more, and if I should be reacting worse to this than I am. Thanks!
did the supposed woman he was chatting with specifically ask for "nude" pics? or did he offer the trade?
he was browsing cause he was looking to step out, drop that zero and get with a hero.
It was sort of mutual. Some asked him for pics and others he just sent them. But he did ask for pics to some of these girls.
What's confusing though is most of the conversations he had with these chicks were about poker. So I asked him why he needed these chicks to talk to and why he couldn't talk to me, his gf. He didnt really have an answer
Obvious answer to short question: yes, yes it is cheating. And he knew it. It's now up to u to make a decision, how attached (love) are you to this guy? Whats the probability of him doing this again? Is he still up to his old ways, just hiding it better on his phone or other laptop on different accounts on chrome incognito mode? How safe do you feel in this relationship?
Are u making him happy? He probably feels impotent being unemployed, and needs the ego boost of other women being into him. The old and probably true adage, "to keep a man happy, you must keep his stomach full and his balls empty."
OOT- Would it be considered cheating if a man visits a live-cam site while the missus is out of town on business?
See that's the thing. I wouldn't care if he did that and I don't really care that females sent him pics. It's him sending pics of himself and talking to these other ladies that bothers me. If he wants someone to talk to it should either be me or his male friends.
I'm busy and work a lot so I don't see him that much and he's very sexually driven so I feel like he's not getting enough from me and then looking elsewhere to satisfy his needs. I've talked with him about it and he says things like its not that and that I satisfy him and stuff so I just don't get it. I don't get why he needs to do that.