So now I have some questions for guys...

1st off, do guys have some radar that signals when theres a newly single girl in sight? Because I never was hit on or asked out when I was with WVU and I havent done anything different, havent dressed or acted different and really only told my close friends we broke up (well and a bunch of strangers on this site lol) but within the last few days of being single I have had 4 different guys wanting to hangout and take me on dates and such. I don't get it. Only one knows me and knew I am single now but the other 3 are total strangers.
Also, is it better to stay single for awhile (if so how long?) or should I start seeing other people? I kinda want to get back out there and start dating again but I don't want to be looking for some rebound guy.
Advice?

Very subtle amichele, I'm sure WVU won't figure out you want to make him jealous, that was just too expertly written

I said it early in the thread and I'll say it again. You should stay single until you've totally got your act together. If you get someone now, you'll end up with someone at your current level and they will just hold you back from improving your life.

amichele15 vs. WVU survivor ftw

You've been ignored once and you'll be ignored again. But interestingly enough, on her FB a certain Alex M has called dibs (in response to her announcement that she's singleeeeeee).

haha not really, I wouldn't be surprised if he's been cheating on me in the past month or so anyways since I've been so busy and preoccupied or he will move on quickly. And I was honest with him in the beginning of this telling him about a few guys who wanted to take me on a date but I told him that these guys were great guys one a lawyer, one an architect, etc but that everytime I thought of going on a date with one of them I couldn't get WVU out of my mind. So he already knows

This is the best advice you're going to get. You are not ready for a relationship and getting into another (or even just dating) is a recipe for disaster.

amichele,

But what if these guys are extremely successful guys that have their **** together? I feel like if anything that would motivate me more to keep improving myself and to hold myself to a higher standard.

They aren't

UGH that Alex M has ZERO chance with me. He is gross and pathetic and I'm pretty sure he's either in jail or homeless or something at the time being. I don't know why he'd even post that.

If you really want to make WVU jealous you should date another 2p2er.

sounds like your type tbh.

That would make a good thread. I'm in.

Typical OOT'er; received great advice, ignore it.

amichele,

Don't go looking for a boyfriend, just be chill and go out with some dudes and have fun, and if you feel like it bang some of them. But don't focus on trying to find a new boyfriend, just take your time and let that happen naturally whenever you're ready.

I don't have much hair anymore, I am a lot more fit though!

WVU =(
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Go date whomever you want.

Just move on and please don't text/email/call me anymore. This has to stop.

And I think you know better than to just show up again....

To put it bluntly, until you get your life together, such guys are out of your league. So they're either going to bail when they get to know you better or there's something wrong with them. Both of these results can be disastrous for you on your path to becoming the person you want to be. This isn't Hollywood, and the successful white knight isn't going to solve your happiness for you. Get your life in shape to the point where you deserve an extremely successful man and then go find one and be happy. You will be way better off that way.

I do not in any way expect you to actually follow this advice though. It's right on the money, but it's extremely difficult to follow.

amichele,

looks like he somehow didn't fall for it

QF

Could just be feigning disinterest in a reverse jealousy play.

Jbrochu,

Some sick metagaming going on right now