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Originally Posted by javi
Or do I keep my plan for divorce secret and essentially spring it on her once all of the loose ends have been tied?
Yes. Keep it secret until you have sorted everything out. She doesn't deserve a heads-up.
Sorry to hear that this happened to you.
**Possible solution: move to the middle-east and when they find out she committed adultery they'll stone her and you won't have to worry about splitting the estate.