You WILL get herpes. Not may, WILL. Of course, having 7 different partners, there's a good chance you already do anyway (condoms don't stop it). Knowing that, have fun! If you're both thinking about it and don't have many reservations, odds are you guys are going to have a blast.

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I think some of you are missing something...

Tool.

Bigger tool.

So I take it to mean you have had considerably less than 7 or proudly have the herp yourself.

hate the word 'tool' so much.

prob cause you are one, tool.

I saw the doco, interesting indeed. Pretty old though.

I think its a great way for single men to have sex, just find couples who are looking The more I search, the more expensive it appears to find a male to **** my girlfriend.

When did amplify become a 40+ orgy going coke fiend? Somehow this was not the mental picture I had of him a year ago. Also, I approve of the new amplify.

Herpes from secks? No wai!?! Better keep it in your pants!

OP if you feel comfortable with this and so does your girl, why not? You might end up liking sex with each other WAY more as a result and it will make you closer/more turned on by each other. Of course STD's are a risk, so be mentally prepared.

However, a word of warning. If your girlfriend is a sensitive person, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT attempt this. She will feel like crap/guilty and it will require some serious damage control if it doesn't out right ruin the relationship.

I've never done the swinging thing or an open relationship but have looked for awhile for a woman who would be into an open relationship. Sex and emotion just have nothing to do with eachother for me. I would be totally into watching a girl I'm into get banged and then the next day be like "you liked that? ok this is how its really done"...Competitive challenge + get to **** other girls would be perfect.
Its never going to happen though, the girls I've dated who have done the open relationship thing in the past or would be interested in it have all been complete lunatics..(not to say I'm not myself)
At an actual swinging party there would be too many people I wouldn't want to associate with let alone have sex with.
An escort is probly the way to dip your toe in the water. Its a very good chance she won't be able to handle seeing you **** another girl, let alone **** another guy. The only couples I've ran into and this seemed to work out had somewhat of a BDSM master/servant thing going on with it seeming to be the girl got off on being emotionally used in a sense.

This is the correct answer to this thread.

Don't let a dude screw up a perfectly good threesome.

Irieguy

this!

the thought of another guy doing my girl creeps me out and i would probably be jealous/angry. my girl seems to think the same, like she couldn't be into another guy doing her. but shes more receptive for sure to another girl in the sack. that has to be the best route by far

This thread has taken a turn for the better.

Girl-girl-guy threesomes work. Everything else is a disaster.

Sometimes it doesn't work. Once I was going out with this black chick who was covered in tattoos & had dreadlocks, very sexy, we brought home a barmaid one night and after some more drinks & etc. the black chick was sucking my dick while I made out with the bargirl. I was getting the bargirl's top off when my gf suddenly decided to get offended that I was putting all my attention on the other girl. By the time I got her calmed down by making out with her and whatnot, the other chick decided she wasn't getting enough attention and took off. Managing these things can be a serious pita, especially with drunk crazy bitches, which is the kind you're most likely to hammer two of.

If you want to swing you don't have to pay ppl. Esp at 23yrs old. You can just go out to a club/bar and find another willing couple or go to certain websites that specialize in matching swingers,

Bunch of homophobes and insecure betas ITT. MFM is so much better than FMF if your girl is a wild slut that really gets into it.

Also, the other guy should have a giant wang, that's like half the point.

wat

Thank you

My opinion, its better to tell your friends you had a threesome with your gf and another girl but you don't tell your friends you had a threesome with another guy. Its just a image/judgemental thing. Not saying I wouldnt have MFF (we will do that later on she says), but me and her both prefer MMF

lolololololol @ u for believing this

Better get that in writing, imo.

LOL. The only MMF I'd be into is with some random bar sloot, just so I could give her an 'Eiffel Tower'. The closest experience I had to swinging was one night at the Spearmint Rhino in Vegas. Some dude told a stripper to bring me over by him and his wife, so I go over there, then he asks me if I want to come back to their hotel room so that he can watch me bang his wife, while going into semi-graphic detail. Wife was OOT 3.5 out of 10 and she and the guy seemed creepy so I politely bounced asap.

When I was about 20, a dude who was much older than me invited me to a sex party. As I recall, he said they liked to have a healthy population (maybe 50%?) of first-timers at every sex party.

For whatever reason, I didn't end up attending, but later I saw pictures from the event. The photos were sort of staged; i.e. the guy was a professional photographer, and taking pictures at his party and posting them on his sex websites provided him with some side-income. But nevertheless, they were "real" and very interesting.

NSFW descriptions to follow...

For instance, a chubby middle aged asian woman was in one shot leaning up against what looked like a doctors exam table, but sort of cleaned up and stylized so as to be suitable for furniture in an artsie kind of house. Next shot, a guy who looks kind of like a turn of the century coal minder with a big scruffy beard is standing next to her. Next shot, she is naked, on the table on all fours, and the dude is fisting her. Next shot, same thing, except about a dozen people are crowded around the table watching, and if you look closely, you can see that here and there among the bystanders, a crotch is being pawed, or an ass fondled.

There was another series of photos from the party of a very hot chick -- the dude's girlfriend, with whom I was also friendly -- getting naked, masterbating on the floor, and then her masterbating with various guys inserting fingers into her vagina, and a butt plug in her ass. And then her finishing it all up by squatting over a potted plant and pissing into it. Ick. But whatever. I'm not judging.

It was pretty cool to see those pictures, and then, you know, eat lunch with 2 or 3 of the people in the photos the next day. And then totally by chance, run into the coal miner guy in the same restaurant, and have him sit down and join us for a few minutes. I mean, it was one thing to have seen porn -- and believe me, I'd seen some porn -- but it was another for this relatively sheltered, unspoiled, practically virgin kid to be sitting at the same table as the "porn stars."

In retrospect, I'm sorry I didn't attend. That is not to say I would have necessarily been next in line to fist, or be fisted (!), but as others have said before me, you only live once.

The same dude later mentioned that I would be a useful asset as a bouncer at one of his public sex photo shoots. You know, someone to keep the homeless from wondering on "set" and trying to cop a feel. But I never followed up with him about actually doing it, and not long after I moved away and that was the end of it.

/derail

Wait, this really needs to be explained?