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Originally Posted by noncents
Couldn't an argument be made that those who classify themselves as "swingers" obviously enjoy it and are more happy because they are "swingers" wheras someone who didn't enjoy it wouldn't consider themselves as such therby inflating the responses?
Exactly. Those numbers seem pretty skewed to me.
Lets say they go to a swingers club to take some poll about this. Well, the types who are at the swingers club are likely repeat customers and thus are more likely to actually be into it.
Hypothetical: the club has 10 couples who comes every single week who say it's awesome...and then rotates through 3 couples every single week who try it once, think it was awful, and never do it again. After 50 weeks you still have 10 couples who say they enjoyed it while 150 couples said it was stupid and terrible. But if you show up on just one week to get a 'random' sampling (or attempt to) then it will like it's 10 to 3 in favor of swinging instead of 150 to 10 against.
And I agree with the other poster about the idea that sex with the same partner doesn't HAVE to get boring after a few years....and at only 23? Seems a reasonable chance you're just doing it wrong or don't have awesome chemistry in the sack or something.