Me and my girlfriend of two years want to give swinging a try. We plan to pay for a professional couple escourt, it will be same room without much boundaries (kissing, oral, penetration). We are both 23 and want to try to be a little more open minded. Lets face it, sex with the same person over and over again can be boring at times, for you and your partner,

On Wiki: (Obviously biased)

60% said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become happier. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them. Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true. Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins

Anyone have any experience or like to share some thoughts?

more like pole master soon, m i rite?

woe is me
what's that pimple down their
what's that burning
what's that rash
good luck
can't wait for the trip report

We both defintely want to do this, just feeling a little nervous. Its going to cost about $300 hr(couple), cheaper than vegas hookers :P

this will not end well...

I can't imagine watching a girl I'm really into get ****ed. I'm 100% for this though if you don't plan on marrying her.

god i hate these serial topics.

why pay for an escort couple? cant you go to a swinger club or find someone on the interwebs?

swinging is generally for ugly couples with no imagination who don't care about their junk getting infected.

how 'bout those cornflakes, though!

OP - MMF or FFM? Huge difference.

The opposite is true for us, we feel we will be together and I am her first (she is my 7th) therefore she should experience others as well.

We would feel more comfortable this way, and with this its all about them pleasing you, with swingers club, you have to please them as well. We find it hard to approach people at a swinger's club as most are much older than we are.

No pictures obviously but I don't think we are ugly. I think you may be wrong about your opinion..

I probably didn't make it clear, but we get one each, in the same room

MMFF

Someone call Henry!

HENRY!!!! Please come and help these poor youngsters. Help them make their first swinging experience their most magical!

I'm disappointed this thread isn't about swingsets.

But gl on the ****ing other people and be sure to give us a very graphic TR afterward.

Is it gonna be a big orgy or are you gonna pair off?

Yeah, always one right after another

Open to ideas, but most likely pair off

So you really just want to **** other people. Why bother with the whole swinging angle?

****ing other people and watch your partner ****/get ****ed by others

To each his own, but if I ever swing it'll be in the biggest, sweatiest orgy I can produce. Go big or go home imo.

Me and my wife have been together for nearly nine years. (17-26) I disagree with this statement, but to each his own I suppose.

However, while I wouldn't object to trying this (sex isn't boring, but i'm a try anything once sort of guy) IF i thought we could both handle it.

Almost everything I've read indicates the opposite of the wiki, but this is just what I stumble across.

Couldn't an argument be made that those who classify themselves as "swingers" obviously enjoy it and are more happy because they are "swingers" wheras someone who didn't enjoy it wouldn't consider themselves as such therby inflating the responses?

HAVE YOU STARTED GROWING A MUSTACHE YET?

Sounds like fun if my "partner" was a girl I just met 2 hours ago. If I cared about her I would not enjoy this at all.
edit: If you have made up your mind to try it, why ask us?

I did a little of this 20 years ago. I thought it would be fun and adventurous, but it turns out I didn't enjoy the presence of the other guy at all. Just awkward.

My recommendation: get a chick to share. win-win.