Anyone else work with like a 58 year old who is in the declining stage of his professional career, and is really bitter that he never "made it big" in the industry.
I work with a dude who is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bitter. I mean just an absurd amount of bitterness.
If we're (any group of 3 people) chatting about our boss in typical "our boss is cheap haha" fashion, he'll say "He's the consumate Republican. Gotta make every dollar become two." Gee, thanks, Don. I'm a Republican. Let's turn his cheapness into some partisan debate. You dick.
He just had his 1 year anniversary at our work, and he emailed our Supervisor to tell him that it would be really appropriate and kind for him to take Don out with the rest of the gang (like 6-8 of us) to celebrate his 1 year anniversary. This is because he never got taken out for lunch when he was new. And the guy who came after him got taken out (buffet pizza...), and Don was teaching that day, so he didn't get to join. So he's harbered these "I've been cheated" feelings for a year and made it a point to tell the supervisor to take him out. On top of that, when asked where he wanted to go he mentioned two places, each with like $10 entrees. Our supervisor grabbed him the other day and a couple others and took him out. He's a huge baby and whiner. This is a 58 year old, never-been-married dude.
He teaches T/TH at a community college, in an entry-level interior design class and he complains to me about how stupid his students are and how he should be teaching at a "real" university. WTF!? Have pride in your work, you dick.
He had his own business for a few years back in the 80's and always has to make it a point to tell people "Back when I was self-employed..." or "Back when I had my own business..." I mean he says this to the owner of our company, and the cleaning lady. We get it, Don. Once you were KING!
He complains about all our clients, and says things like "Boy I'm glad I never got hired at _____ firm. They're beneath me. I'm too good for them." And he could be talking about one of the best firms in our area.
He claims he got fired from a job years ago because he "dressed better than the partners." He had to tell me he had a closet full of Armani suits, and he used to drive a 300Z, and wore Italian shoes. Yeah, Don, sure...that's why you got fired. Not because you attitude SUCKS!
He's always saying crap like "The reason I never attained riches is because...". This is a guy who gets a bonus check, and spends it on depreciable crap like toy cars, pecan pies, wine, etc. That's why you aren't rich you d-bag.
I could probably go on and on and on but he's generally a "glass is half-empty, Republicans suck, I should be rich, I should be this...that...and the other, I deserve better type of guy."
It's a shame because he's honestly a pretty smart guy, and he is easy to talk to. I treat him as somewhat of a mentor, and I've used him as a professional reference because he actually is very well-spoken and he thinks highly of me. I'm training him right now to take over when I leave and I enjoy talking with him. But when he starts with the "woe-is-me" bullsh*t I try to turn the subject or lighten things up PRONTO before it deteriorates into some endless chasm of pessimism.