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Originally Posted by whatthejish
The biggest challenge with group sex seems to be positioning. It’s a geometry game.
perhaps with 2 dudes geometry is a factor, but with two women, unless they are bi then it's much less about geometry but rather working well to try to distribute things evenly and not neglect the other - never even been able to manage a "you sit on my dick and you sit on my face" scenario but rather more like the other would just lay next to us waiting her turn while i'd try to finger blast or rub her tits on the side - lots of work and if the two women aren't going to be going at it with each other as well as you then not worth it imo
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Originally Posted by whatthejish
Everyone is at least a little bit gay. Skin is skin.
Only one way to find out.
hard disagree with this
there are worlds of difference between finding another man attractive and nice to look at versus wanting to penetrate or be penetrated by him - likewise, I don't masturbate to the art galleries I visit
i say this knowing fully well there are men on this planet that are genuinely attractive and nice to look at - yet I'd still want to throw up at the thought of seeing their balls or ******* in close proximity or even kissing them
agree that there's a spectrum etc etc but also think the "we're all a little gay and you're an insecure closet case if you deny this" is more coping than reality
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Originally Posted by Fossilkid93
Position of the letters matters.
If you say MMF it implies it's a bisexual 3some, MFM would be no contact between the males.
Same for FFM or FMF.
I've tried MFM. It was a Portuguese couple and the girl was really hot, exactly my type, but I still wasn't that into it. I don't even really remember the exact details as it was 6 years ago and not all that memorable for me, but I do remember she did a striptease for both of us, blew us both, then wanted to be DPed.
My performance was kinda shitty as I wasn't into it and couldn't even keep it up the whole time, but they still wanted to repeat the next weeked for some reason. I declined.
I'm in a relationship now and I'd probably do another MFM if my girlfriend asked, but more as a favor to her. I'd probably be a bit more into it as I'd at least have a connection with her whereas I felt a bit out of place w/the couple.
did not know this about the placement of the letters being significant, really interesting
as for OP, I don't personally think I could do a mfm with a girlfriend who I had a long term vested interest in unless that was going to be our thing ie regularly inviting in extra partners of both sexes and maybe even messing about and doing things on our own but with permission
i definitely wouldn't be into it, as norman mailer once wrote
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It is nice when a marriage may feel like an orgy each night without having to pay the toll—that is, having to look on the face of the neighbor who is screwing your wife.
that's probably a little too much for me, not only knowing she's banging another dude but you're there actively witnessed their faces, I like to think I'm a pretty confident guy, but I worry about what latent insecurities would arise, what if she seemed to like him more, or vice versa, you are doing mff and she thinks you enjoy banging the other one more etc etc
so I wouldn't engage in this if it's a one off with you long term partner unless you're going to doing this thing repeatedly
i've told this story a bunch here, but back when craigslist personals existed I used to always check it out with regularity - never once met up with anyone on it but was always wild seeing all the "please bang my wife" posts, most of them seemed to hint that the husband was bi and if you were down for it then you could bang him too - mostly felt like the "please bang my wife" wasn't really for the wife but more for the husband who wanted to bring in some cock variety without actually cheating even if that meant sharing his wife as a carrot to make it happen - so I've always felt like most 2 guys 3 ways were definitely a little on the bi side
having said that, if I were the third wheel and the woman was attractive, I'd probably try it under the right circumstances
see an ad on craigslist is a hard pass
attractive couple I'm talking to at the bar invite me up to their room and I'm not holding valuables then sure why not