Has anyone tried an MMF 3 way before as a straight guy? Just curious as to what it would be like. I've never done it myself.

I think it could be cool in the sense that you are with a lady who is taking on two guys at once. The fact that she is sexually open enough to do that would be a turn on. The downside would be that you wouldn't have the lady all to yourself. I also wouldn't want to kiss her after the other guy's schlong has been in her mouth. It's something you see in the porn movies, so maybe that is part of my curiousity as well.

Just curious as to other people's experience as to whether it was something regrettable or enjoyable and you'd do it again.

Never done it; pretty sure I couldn't with a woman I was dating. Maybe if it were a friend and his wife, or a friend and a woman who wasn't in a relationship with either of us.
I did think about doing it with a woman I previously dated in return for having a FFM with her as well, but the opportunities didn't arrive.

In the early 80s pron the girl would sometimes take both dongs in her mouth at once.

I started a thread a million years ago about something like this. GF at the time would agree to two girls one guy if I did two guys one girl first. Thought about that then she stated, "If you want me to do stuff with the girl in the two girls thing then you have to do stuff with the guy in the two guys thing."

I didn't do the two guys thing.

Yes on the MMF. No on any of the porn stuff. Probably need to be sober and/or a pro for that.

Everyone is at least a little bit gay. Skin is skin.

Was very close to a threesome with two girls once, but I biffed it.

The biggest challenge with group sex seems to be positioning. It’s a geometry game.

This gets said a lot. I don't believe it.

Only one way to find out.

There's gotta be ground rules

No, never have, never considered it. Have never watched MMF porn.

I don't want to be near or see any naked guys when I'm naked.

I would only be interested in FFM if the girls only did me, not each other.

Nope.

Position of the letters matters.

If you say MMF it implies it's a bisexual 3some, MFM would be no contact between the males.

Same for FFM or FMF.

I've tried MFM. It was a Portuguese couple and the girl was really hot, exactly my type, but I still wasn't that into it. I don't even really remember the exact details as it was 6 years ago and not all that memorable for me, but I do remember she did a striptease for both of us, blew us both, then wanted to be DPed.

My performance was kinda shitty as I wasn't into it and couldn't even keep it up the whole time, but they still wanted to repeat the next weeked for some reason. I declined.

I'm in a relationship now and I'd probably do another MFM if my girlfriend asked, but more as a favor to her. I'd probably be a bit more into it as I'd at least have a connection with her whereas I felt a bit out of place w/the couple.

How do MFM and DP exist together?

Very carefully

I'd say MFM is a more accurate descriptor than MMF considering there was almost no contact between the 2 males. Obviously there are degrees though.

perhaps with 2 dudes geometry is a factor, but with two women, unless they are bi then it's much less about geometry but rather working well to try to distribute things evenly and not neglect the other - never even been able to manage a "you sit on my dick and you sit on my face" scenario but rather more like the other would just lay next to us waiting her turn while i'd try to finger blast or rub her tits on the side - lots of work and if the two women aren't going to be going at it with each other as well as you then not worth it imo


hard disagree with this

there are worlds of difference between finding another man attractive and nice to look at versus wanting to penetrate or be penetrated by him - likewise, I don't masturbate to the art galleries I visit

i say this knowing fully well there are men on this planet that are genuinely attractive and nice to look at - yet I'd still want to throw up at the thought of seeing their balls or ******* in close proximity or even kissing them

agree that there's a spectrum etc etc but also think the "we're all a little gay and you're an insecure closet case if you deny this" is more coping than reality



did not know this about the placement of the letters being significant, really interesting


as for OP, I don't personally think I could do a mfm with a girlfriend who I had a long term vested interest in unless that was going to be our thing ie regularly inviting in extra partners of both sexes and maybe even messing about and doing things on our own but with permission

i definitely wouldn't be into it, as norman mailer once wrote

that's probably a little too much for me, not only knowing she's banging another dude but you're there actively witnessed their faces, I like to think I'm a pretty confident guy, but I worry about what latent insecurities would arise, what if she seemed to like him more, or vice versa, you are doing mff and she thinks you enjoy banging the other one more etc etc

so I wouldn't engage in this if it's a one off with you long term partner unless you're going to doing this thing repeatedly


i've told this story a bunch here, but back when craigslist personals existed I used to always check it out with regularity - never once met up with anyone on it but was always wild seeing all the "please bang my wife" posts, most of them seemed to hint that the husband was bi and if you were down for it then you could bang him too - mostly felt like the "please bang my wife" wasn't really for the wife but more for the husband who wanted to bring in some cock variety without actually cheating even if that meant sharing his wife as a carrot to make it happen - so I've always felt like most 2 guys 3 ways were definitely a little on the bi side

having said that, if I were the third wheel and the woman was attractive, I'd probably try it under the right circumstances

see an ad on craigslist is a hard pass

attractive couple I'm talking to at the bar invite me up to their room and I'm not holding valuables then sure why not

Best person to probably ask is Dominic

Glad the MMF and MFM placement has been mentioned as it's always a bit of a bug bearer for me.

Been in a couple of MFM one as meeting up with a couple and the other with an ex g/f so have been on both sides of the coin. To be honest it all depends on what you want to get out of the experience. Being the partner of the girl in one kinda sucked a little as the guy we met up with was a bit of a douche and was not very receptive to her signs. It was very clear she was not enjoying what he was doing and when asked to stop he did for like a second or two then started doing the same again. She faked being hurt so he would stop and that was that. Then the couple I met up with as a single guy was ok but they wanted to do some DVP which is just not something I am into one bit, so again did another bad experience.

If the situation came up again I would be up for it but I think all parties involved need to be upfront first on what they want to get out of it.

Also OP if you are worried about kissing a girl after she has had a dick in her mouth then you should not kiss a girl at all. I can imagine most girls you have kissed have sucked a dick.

Might be something for over here:
https://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/3...but-do-600439/

Haha I have to avoid that thread as I have so many things that bug me that should not.

Holy smokes man DVP! That is some pretty wild stuff man. I am 100% straight, so even though that doesn't directly involve having sex with another man, I don't know how comfortable I would feel jamming my c*ck inside of a hole with another man's c*ck rubbing up against mine. Holy smokes man it is hard to imagine that scenario/option ever coming up in my life.

I did join an online swingers community a little while back, but have yet to partake in any of their activities. Most couples are looking to meet other couples, so single guys like myself aren't as in demand.

Lol I don’t like threesomes, in any configuration. But the MFM one is just awkward as hell.

NEVER do a 3some with someone you are in a serious relationship. It only messes things up. Someone will always be jealous.

Dominic has entered the thread arena with undeniable wisdom!

Dom what is the other dude was Josh Allen and the F was mac jones?

Hopefully not since brushing her teeth!

Have known this since I was 13 as Dr Drew would end up saying it on every episode of Loveline.