Sorry for monopolizing this thread but I think those who remember the excitement of buying their first house will forgive me.
Here are some things I think I should pass on to anyone starting on, or thinking about, searching for a home to buy.
If you are part of a couple, both sides need to be heard. ESPECIALLY if you are the dominant voice. I was the more dominant one when it came to house hunting and I almost got us into a house that was way more me. That led to some tense times between us.
Be prepared to see a lot of houses. Again, ESPECIALLY if you are part of a couple.
Have a good agent you trust who will listen to you and find a happy medium if you are part of a couple. We have such an agent, but I was pretty hard headed. Don't you be hard headed.
Be prepared for disappointment. You may think you have made a very good offer, but until you have the keys the house isn't yours. We thought we had a house and were dreaming about how we would fix it, but the seller rejected our two offers. Due to our budget including renovations and giving the seller his price meant we would exceed it, we didn't make a third. This sent the wife into a funk where she revealed the house wasn't that much her. Yes, I know we may be setting ourselves up for disappointment again. Experiencing disappointment leads me to my next suggestion.
If you lose out on a house, take some time off if you can. The wife and I didn't do that and before we saw the next house, she asked me if I liked it if I was prepared for us to make an offer. I stupidly said yes so when I said I liked it, BUT we wouldn't be making an offer, she was upset. You can also say you won't be making an offer on the next house without thinking about it even if you like it.
Stick to your budget and take into consideration all the renovations you may want to do.
Just because you are approved for a certain amount doesn't mean you need to buy a house of that price. Personally, I think the amount you are approved for MINUS any down payment equals the price of the house rather than the amount you are approved for PLUS your down payment equals the priced of the house.
That is all about I have for now on that subject and now I want to talk about a house I saw during our search.
It was a ranch with a three car garage and the third bay's pad outside looked like it had settled lower than the other bays, but it was lower by design. During our tour of the house, I looked into the garage and I saw a two bay garage with a wall and a door between that and the third garage bay. The seller was a Corvette lover and in the two car garage was an SUV and a Corvette of some undetermined vintage. I thought I would see a large vehicle that required more headroom thus accounting for the lower pad so I walked over to the door, opened it, and I was like "Holy Crap!"
Last edited by Doc T River; 01-31-2015 at 07:53 PM.
Reason: In a spoiler tag to give you the anticipation I made my wife and my agent endure.