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Originally Posted by MicroBob
Anyone who is in favor of telling the wife because "she deserves to know": Do you tell any other person you don't know at all if you know (or believe) of their spouse cheating on them?
Lets say you're in Vegas talking to some random stranger and he's kind of drunk and he says that his wife bores him so he's going to pick up a woman out there or get a hooker. Do you try to contact his wife back in Missouri to let her know what her hubby's up to?
Hey Bob -
I will first say that I am NOT necessarily in the tell the wife camp. Just playing devil's advocate here because I think this is a very tough/interesting question.
What about the example above where somebody witnessed a car crime and stuck around to tell the owner? I don't think many people would have a problem with that.
I definitely understand your point, though - there seems to be a line of involvement in here somewhere.
For example, if you were wife's best friend in this case, it seems like it would be more acceptable for you to tell the wife than it would be for some complete rando to tell her, as your Vegas example illustrates.
For OP, who is sort of involved here but doesn't know the wife, I think it's kind of in-between. Thoughts?