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Originally Posted by El Rojo
How did you guys first get into the swinging lifestyle?
This is sort of a long story for me. I had always told my wife since we started dating that if we were going to have a life long relationship the chance of me staying faithful was near 0%. She was not very happy with this, but accepted it. I told her that I could do what the vast majority of people do and cheat on her without her knowledge, but I'd rather be honest as its the dishonesty that I feel hurts people most when their spouse cheats.
So, we date for 5 years and get married (I actually never had sex or even fooled around with another woman until we started swinging.) A year into our marriage she finds another guy attractive and asks for my blessing to have sex with him. I told her to go for it. This actually didn't work out as the guy had some mental issues/serious religious issues. We decided at this point to look into swinging
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Originally Posted by El Rojo
Was it your idea or spouse's? How did they react?
Sort of both as I explained above. We did have some jealousy issues but we've worked through them and our relationship is 100% better for working through them, which we never would have done if it weren't for swinging.
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Originally Posted by El Rojo
What's the ages that goes to these clubs? Youngest to oldest? Do you see a mixed age group - 20's to 50's?
The youngest I've seen is probably around 20, the oldest maybe 65, total group heavily weighted to the younger side. We are 27 and 26.