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Originally Posted by txdome
I think you are an accomplished attorney and crafty with words and messages. Why can't you deliver that message as a parent without hitting your kids?
Because they refused to listen. The first time my daughter bit me, I put her in time out and explained that her behavior was wrong. She bit me again perhaps a month later, this time at a restaurant, so I put her in time out and withheld dessert that she wanted. And I explained that the behavior was entirely unacceptable and that I would spank her if she did it again. Three months later, she did it a third time. One hard swat over my knee and I put her in time out until she stopped crying, which was about ten minutes. I explained why I spanked her and asked her if she understood that the behavior was never to be repeated. She said that she did. I told her that i loved her very much and gave her a hug and she went about her business and that was the end of he matter. If you find all that horrifying, then we’ll just have to agree to disagree.
In direct answer to your question, words simply did not work. It was not an issue where I was inarticulate or that she did not understand my instruction. She perfectly well did: she just didn’t want to listen to it.
Last edited by Howard Treesong; 02-07-2019 at 06:58 PM.