I struggle the same. Though my only issues are endless opportunities and poor will power. And the only reason for doing so would be to get high as FUKKKKK much easier.
My old lady just bought the following rig. It's rather smaller than the current one, which will take getting used to. But mostly, it has a glass area for the wax, and I've only ever used a titanium nail. Not really sure how long to heat it or what to look for. Used it a couple times and it was definitely a nice clean hit.