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Originally Posted by VoraciousReader
I am struggling this week. My brother and father left town last Tuesday afternoon and I have spiraled down ever since. Everything feels like too much effort, and terribly pointless. I feel like a failure. I am getting through the days by making a list every night of what I need to do the next day and checking the items off one by one. It even includes daily/every other day things like "run dishwasher" "scoop cat litter" "open mail" and vital things like "grocery shopping" "pay rent".
It's so embarrassing to be functioning at this level as an adult. I added "walk in the park" to tomorrow's list to get some fresh air and exercise. Fortunately I've had appointments on several days (met my college roommate for coffee, had a therapist visit, met with my case manager) so I haven't been able to stagnate in the apartment for days at a time. Today I recycled my glass jars just for somewhere to go.
Positives: have been eating healthfully, apartment isn't a mess, made all my appointments despite just wanting to stay in bed,
Negatives: missed a day of meds (thyroid, not anti-psychotic) due to not filling the prescription (which precipitated the list method), feeling sorry for myself, unable to enjoy anything, sleep schedule which I had made great progress with is all messed up again
I give myself a C-. It would be a B-, but missing a day's medication is at LEAST a letter grade downgrade.
I've been avoiding this thread as I went through a bad period recently, thankfully feeling heaps better now! Saw VR had posted so popped in for a look
I agree with Lapka, definitely don't beat yourself up. The fact that you are making lists and doing stuff when you aren't feeling right is huge imo. I do exactly the same thing and depending how bad I am feeling I will do it in 2 ways. If I am feeling lowest of low it will be the most basic list you have ever seen.
Shower/dress
walk dogs/harass bf to walk dogs
work
Cook dinner
clean kitchen (the basics as in fill dw and wipe the benches)
If I am feeling depressed but feel like I could possibly get a bit more done I make a list and grade it
Absolutely have to do
Be nice if it got done
Consider doing?
Doesn't really matter
That way I should get done the absolutes and if I mark off any of the others I feel good about myself but if I don't I'm not overly bothered and then I can add them to the list the next day if needed, so theoretically they should eventually get done
Personally I like lists anyway. I feel like I get more done if I make a list and mark things off throughout the day instead of just winging it. I hope you are feeling better soon. I think you are doing really well getting yourself out and about when you are feeling so rubbish.