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Originally Posted by the degenerate
Theres no reason to be depressed in this world. (Actually the truth is theres plenty of reason but theres no point in spending what little time we have on Earth feeling that way) You're doing it to yourself. You have to understand that you have full control over your life.
Ugh.
Depression is an illness, you can't argue/reason your way out of it ("there's no point feeling that way"). It's frustrating that so many people say things like "just do X".
Somewhat unrelated, but I know of a guy that has chronic headaches and he simply decided to stop even mentioning them, because so many people would say "oh you just need to stay hydrated" or some other general thing, as if they had the answer and the person suffering hadn't thought (for years) about possible ways to overcome it.
Regarding hiding it from others, it may have to do with not wanting to explain things/fearing an ignorant response, it may be simply shame. I know I don't want to talk about certain things that aren't going well in my life if I have to trace it to being a result of having been depressed. Just the thought of having it brought up in conversation gives me anxiety.