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Also, don't listen to anything Truthsayer says itt. He has no idea what he's talking about and his advice is, quite literally, dangerous.
In the post above you are making absurd generalizations about someone you have never met, and my advice is dangerous?
Are you aware of how many different types of BDP there are? That it's merely a cluster of symptoms and not a "disease", like cancer? That it differs wildly from person to person, in term of outcomes, behavior, etc?
You say stuff like:
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Therapy is notoriously difficult for people with a PD, especially BPD, b/c they lie and manipulate everyone. It's nearly impossible for a therapist to have any real idea what's going on.
And yet you advocate therapy. What is therapy going to do if it's "nearly impossible" for the therapist to have any idea what's going on?
She clearly has substantial awareness of her problems as posted by OP. She was clearly uncomfortable being there and dealt with it in a bad way. That the therapist didn't pick that up immediately makes him a moron. I'm sorry. Therapists experienced with BDP would be on top of that in a minute or less.
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No one but you thinks you have any moral obligation to her. wtf is wrong with you? As I've said before, you need to talk to a therapist yourself and alone, not with the BPD.
More therapist dollars.
Perhaps you've been burnt by a BDP - mother/girlfriend? and have a raging fear of them, but the facts are quite clear - I've posted the studies in this thread - that most recover and have no relapses, contrary to what everyone in this thread is saying. If he wants to stay with her because her likes here, the prognosis is excellent. Who are you to say "wtf is wrong with you" if he wants to do that?