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Originally Posted by suzzer99
I walked to school by myself as young as 1st grade and full time from 2nd grade on. Had to cross a busy 4 lane road at rush hour in Kindergarten. My grandpa was supposed to help me where I would meet up with other kids. But he was a drunk and sometimes the other kids weren't there.
In 4th grade I was taking the KC Metro bus system across the city to go to school - which is actually pretty safe if you just sit by the driver. But transferring buses downtown was a little dicey. The school saw me waiting at the regular bus stop one day and shut it down.
I spent summers at our place in Vermont -- 75 acres or so, about two miles outside of town. i was allowed to bike into town on my own in 1973, the year i turned 10, but had to walk my bike across the somewhat busy road through town to get to the general store. I was expected to be home every day by 630 for dinner, but i often had total free reign all day -- including going up to the pond to swim with my brother or a friend.
That was a different time. We routinely picked up hitchhikers, and I hitched a few times myself in 78, 79 and 80 when i had a job in a town seven miles away not not always an easy way to get there.
i'm largely a free range parent, but our daughters are 20 and 18 now so the subject is largely moot. Older daughter is flying back from LA in a few hours and we are going on total lockdown for two weeks. one person will go out shopping every couple of days and we'll walk the dogs without coming within fifteen feet of anyone else. younger daughter is a senior in high school and i told her to read the medium.com piece. she worked out some of the math and is wholly on board with a complete lockdown.
some of her friends were bitching about not having a senior prom and she called them out for it. she totally understands that it's less about us getting it than it is about behaving in a way that benefits society as a whole. not all of us conservatives are selfish pricks, suzz.