Hi,my own father is not acting normal and made some dumb moves with our lives. I went to him yestarday and talked about our situation that we were in debt and we had to beg from a institute called Department of Social Assistance.We received their money but unfortunately for us we had to beg from them because my own father wouldn't listen to us.
My own mother sold the appartment where we lived to a client and after a while we were forced to return the money to him because my own father tried something stupid.My own father blocked the cadastre of my mother's apparment and I can't sell it.
We are forced to return around 8000 euro to the client!
How can I try to force him to listen to me? Should I try self-harm?
Can someone from here talk to him? Is there something wrong with this?
Is it against the rules to add a phone number to the forum?
I'm not man enough to face him and even if I knew how to do it I wouldn't know how!
I'm very desperate and I have no idea what to do!
I'm stuck in a appartment and both of my parents are ruining me!
My own relatives kicked me out because they told me that we are the scum of the earth for begging from them and asking for help!
Besides that,I got kicked out of college for not paying my college! My own father won't pay me my college because he replied to me that he is poor and he lives with another woman.
What should I do?

How old are you and what country do you live in? At first glance, it sounds like you need to make your own money, move out and live your own life.

I'm 23 and I live with my mom!
I live in Romania!

The way you wrote your post sounds like you expect things to be given to you, it’s time to go out and get it yourself. Work at least 50 hours a week, rent your own place as soon as you can and go from there.

This is not new.

First glance and all subsequent glances.

Working is for suckers. Everyone works but like 1% are wealthy. Ofc those wealthy don't actually work. I think your best chance is to pick different parents.

“Wealthy” is not the goal, although sure it would be nice. Self-sufficient and content is the goal. Your attitude of defeat is pervasive these days, especially among people around OP’s age. It sucks, frankly. Before you talk to me about boomer energy or whatever, I’m 33.

ok boomer

My sister has quite a few friends with sons around ops age. I was amazed when she told me how many have this going on. It's definitely a thing.

I forgot to mention about my student allowance!
My father pays me partial the sum of my allowance!
Are there any cheap ways to deal with it?

So you're 23, are living rent-free with your parents, they provide some monetary assistance towards your college tuition and you still want more?

I think you're not going to find a great deal of sympathy on these forums

Sounds like you just got wolly'd.

Narrator:

You can't. A better plan is to get a job, move out, and stop talking to him.

No. It's called SELF harm for a reason. It only harms yourself.

He won't listen to his own family but you think he'll listen to random people from the internet? There is something wrong with that, yes.

I don't know what the rules are, but I do know posting your phone number anywhere on the internet would be really dumb and could only result in bad things.

Then don't face him. Get a job and move out. Take care of yourself instead of begging others to take care of you.

Here's what you do: get a job and move out.

I'm sorry. That sucks. The solution is to get a job and move out. Setup your life so that your parents don't have the ability to ruin it.

The only member of my family that supports me is my mother!
I just want to live a normal life like you but my own father is ruining me!

I don't understand what "I just want to live a normal life like you" is supposed to mean. It sounds to me like you are living a pretty normal life for somebody of your generation: living for free with his parents, being given money, not working, able to go to college, and yet complaining about it all to the point that you think that hurting yourself is a solution.

You have been given sound advice already. At 23 years old, you can either suck it up with your family or you can go out on your own and make your own way. I am not sure what else you expect this forum to tell you.

I'm not able to go to college because I haven't paid the tax of my college for 1 year.
I'm stuck in the same town for 2 years and the debts which I pay comes from my handicap salary.
I'm not staying with my mother for free.....I had to pay the gas and electrical current+the internet taxes.....
What I'm trying to say but I want to live a normal life is that I want an appartment where I can live and eat like you have.
What's so hard to understand?

Get a job.
Why is that so hard to understand?

Guess who the only person is that can fix this?

Hint

@krunic So I should get a job and quit college? It's that what you're saying?

Excellent reading comprehension wolly.

Yes

You just posted: "I'm not able to go to college because I haven't paid the tax of my college for 1 year."

Wtf is going on here? Are you trolling us?

He can't go to college so isn't he de facto quitting it right now?