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08-22-2016 , 10:27 PM
Not quite that El D, but I was hoping for some sign or something that we were supposed to stay together and have a wonderful life together and I was supposed to get my dream job and live in Dallas happily ever after.
With this move I guess it's a good opportunity for my daughter to build a good relationship with her father and for me to get closer to my family and resolve some issues there.
I've been spending some time with one of my sisters that I was never really close to, and now I'm realizing we are a lot alike and deal with a lot of the same issues and can help each other grow.
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08-22-2016 , 10:30 PM
I meant it when I said that I have never loved someone as much as code3, and I saw myself and my daughter all spending our lives together. I'm really missing him now. I'm missing our routine and our conversations real bad.
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08-22-2016 , 10:36 PM
MeBabsYouLongTime,

Have you found a new therapist in your new town?

You should find a new therapist in your new town.
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08-22-2016 , 10:37 PM
Work on your mental health and take care of your daughter. You'll meet someone else you can have a good and healthy relationship with eventually. That someone wasn't code3.
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08-22-2016 , 10:55 PM
Mlylt,

So you were looking for a sign to make up for the fact that he repeatedly told and showed you he didn't care about your feelings, didn't want to marry you, hurt you and your daughter, never prioritized you first, always took his sister and sil's side over you no matter what, never stuck up for you, and cheated on you?

What kind of sign do you think would have let you know you were supposed to stay together?

Edit: getting pregnant, I guess.
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08-22-2016 , 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Not quite that El D, but I was hoping for some sign or something that we were supposed to stay together and have a wonderful life together and I was supposed to get my dream job and live in Dallas happily ever after.
With this move I guess it's a good opportunity for my daughter to build a good relationship with her father and for me to get closer to my family and resolve some issues there.
I've been spending some time with one of my sisters that I was never really close to, and now I'm realizing we are a lot alike and deal with a lot of the same issues and can help each other grow.
\_(ツ)_/

I guess. Might as well, right?
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08-22-2016 , 11:05 PM
Mlylt,

Did you reply to the other two companies that emailed you to interview?
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08-22-2016 , 11:06 PM
Yes, I told them I had accepted a position already.
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08-22-2016 , 11:12 PM
You have a unique relationship with the thread/forum MLYLT. I don't think you're Babs fwiw; you are much more intelligent.

That being said, how do you view us as a collective?

I remember you for a few things: the dick pod, you requesting and being ecstatic about your custom avatar, and all your you stuff after; starting with 'SIL' 'narcissist' drama

To my point that you're not Babs - I never could have been meta with him
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08-22-2016 , 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I'm also really missing Code3. He went to California for work for two weeks, and it was so hard to be apart from him for just that long.
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08-23-2016 , 04:42 AM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I'm starting to think that accepting the job in east Texas was a mistake. I knew I wanted to be in a project engineering roll and that I wanted to live and work in Dallas. I can't even bring myself to unpack my boxes in the hopes that the company I really wanted to work at will make me some absurd offer I can't refuse and I can just move back to Dallas. I'm also really missing Code3. He went to California for work for two weeks, and it was so hard to be apart from him for just that long. Everything just feels to sudden of a change.
that's just the pregnancy hormones talking, stay strong!
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08-23-2016 , 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Yeah just skim over the post were in telling you that you hurt me so you can defend your relationship with your sister some more and try to be funny, like you don't care as always.
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Lol, yes! I will be living in a great neighborhood that is more conducive to walking than my current place. I will be walking every night while my daughter rides her bike as soon as I'm moved in tomorrow. I'll also get some walking in tonight after packing.
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We were living together for years and he did cheat.
Stay strong. Remember that if you're diagnosed bipolar then you can't always trust your feelings. Trust your head and the decision you made.
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08-23-2016 , 09:45 AM
Strained relationship with your family.
Strained marriage that led to divorce.
Strained relationship with code3.
Strained relationship with code3 family.

"The only constant in all of your failed relationships is you."

Not trying to pile on, though I'm sure it feels that way. Just encouraging you to look within, before we add strained relationship with your child to the list in the years to come.
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08-23-2016 , 02:33 PM
oh and don't forget the title of this thread
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08-23-2016 , 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by DodgerIrish
You have a unique relationship with the thread/forum MLYLT. I don't think you're Babs fwiw; you are much more intelligent.

That being said, how do you view us as a collective?

I remember you for a few things: the dick pod, you requesting and being ecstatic about your custom avatar, and all your you stuff after; starting with 'SIL' 'narcissist' drama

To my point that you're not Babs - I never could have been meta with him


I think of OOT like I'm reading an evolving novel and there are all these different characters (people being helpful, trolling, being funny) and the story wouldn't come together without all the characters and their roles. I know the people behind the screen names are real, but it doesn't feel real.

I've gotten some great advice in here and awesome help with my resume, so for the most part I see OOT as a helpful place.
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08-23-2016 , 03:24 PM
Seriously, you really need to start dealing with objective reality and stop living in the fantasy world you create in your head.

Everyone constructs little "wouldn't it be great if...." stories in their head, but you try to live in these ****ing fantasies and then wonder why your life isn't as great as you think it should be.

Every single person in this thread told you months, if not a year or more ago, that your relationship with Code 3 was not good for either of you and needed to end. Every single person in this thread could have told you there was a zero percent chance of a last second tearful confession/plea from him before you moved.

You either need to learn to deal with reality, or you need to basically outsource your decision making. If you continue to try to live your life with such distorted views of reality, your daughter is going to suffer a lot.
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08-23-2016 , 04:06 PM
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You either need to learn to deal with reality, or you need to basically outsource your decision making.
Maybe she can find a decision maker on Tinder.
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08-23-2016 , 04:14 PM
new meaning for OK Cupid
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08-23-2016 , 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Neil S
Stay strong. Remember that if you're diagnosed bipolar then you can't always trust your feelings. Trust your head and the decision you made.
this. seriously.
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08-23-2016 , 05:02 PM
Guys she's not real
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08-23-2016 , 05:34 PM
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Guys she's not real
At this point, I would prefer that this was KKF's magnum opus and not reality. Sadly, this is not the case.
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08-23-2016 , 05:39 PM
oT,

Mlylt could be code's elaborate gimmick so he could get to see some dudes' *****!
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08-23-2016 , 05:44 PM
We can always hope
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08-23-2016 , 05:55 PM
that's what I've hoped all along
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08-23-2016 , 07:53 PM
All of my neighbors are great here. Everyone of them came to meet me today. They are all in there late 60s. There's a old hippy guy that lives across the street, and just gave me his wifi password. I'm going to take some pics of the house in a bit and post.
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