I found a nice 3bdr/2400sqft house for $975/month! I'm ready to move.

One bedroom for you, one for your daughter, and one for Code3 just in case he is willing to follow you. House means it has a lawn that you can ask him to mow for you in exchange for sexing, right?

Congratulations on the new house code3!

In the poker game of life, women are the rake man. They are the ****ing rake.

I might be willing to coach him for a reasonable fee.

Also, if MLYLT actually goes through with the move away, good on her.

I have talked to him, he was just about begging me to take the job so he could see our daughter more. He will definantly be there for her; there's no doubt in my mind about that.

Sounds like a great situation for you and daughter.

Not having a job definitely sucks.

Actually, it's mostly, if not all your fault. You refuse to accept responsibility and heed advice from others. You continually blame other people for your shortcomings and failures. It will be your fault until you accept responsibility for your actions (which I highly doubt you ever will do).

The fact that you complain all the time and code3 has barely said a word pretty much affirms whose fault it really is. You aren't fooling anyone, and your daughter has it 100% right.

I'm not the only one telling you this, has told you this, or will tell you this in the future, and probably in the distant future since you refuse to actually listen or make changes.

jesus christ this is truly pathetic

Here's hoping Code3 owns a lawnmower. And he and the ex become good drinking buddies.

Better to use monthly salary figures. No way she will keep an engineering job for a year.

This made me LOL this morning really

4th largest metro, how many major ones are there?

It's really a holistic question.

I want to email the hiring manager for the job I really want in Dallas asking him if he can make a decision by Friday and letting him know that I really want the job. Could someone write an example so that I don't come off too desperate?

Call, don't write.

Who cares if you come off desperate? Just be honest with him about your situation and your desired salary. If he can't accommodate you he'll let you know.

Hi _____,

Hope you are well.

I've received an offer to start as a _____ for _____. I have until the end of this week to accept the offer.

After meeting with you and your team, I was really excited about the potential opportunity to work together. My experience with _____ makes me a great fit for the team/role, and I'm really excited to learn ______.

I would really like to become a member of your team.

I've reached out to _____ in HR, but I want to make you directly aware of the situation, because this is the most passionate I have felt about an opportunity.

Please let me know if you have any questions for me, I'm available to speak at _______ (offer some times).

Best,
Mlylt

That is a draft, have other people edit it as well. Probably alright to send, but can be improved a lot.

After sending that email I would follow up with a call/voicemail after about 10 mins.

But she's already accepted the other offer. Somehow I predict she's going to come out of this with no job and no offers.

Mlylt,

If you already accepted the other offer then stop ****ing around and get ready to go work for them.

You don't accept an offer and then do this, you do this first.

I have time constraints. The other company only gave me two days to accept the offer.

What would it hurt to back out of the accepted offer to take another one?

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