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08-16-2016 , 03:35 AM

#1201

DodgerIrish

Fraudulent Zodiac

Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 28,239

[in the middle of ****ing]

Tell me that you love me!

HE SAYS HE STILL LOVES ME!!!

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08-16-2016 , 03:38 AM

#1202

El Diablo

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Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 70,770

Dodger,

The problem is she'll always keep running back to code whenever he wants until she actually accepts and acknowledges the reality of their situation, which from her recent posts it's very clear she's nowhere close to doing.

So her only hope at her plan working is that code is too busy banging other chicks or finds a girl he really likes, and doesn't get bored and decide to summon mlylt back.

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08-16-2016 , 03:40 AM

#1203

DodgerIrish

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Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 28,239

Unless she finds a suitable replacement, if one of those guys blew her away instead of just on her who knows where we'd be?

She needs to do what you said, **** all the dudes she works with. One of them will stick. er

One of them will have a big enough stick. She seems to be a straight up self-admitted nympho. She put up with everything from code until he started holding out.

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08-16-2016 , 03:41 AM

#1204

27offsuit

actions have consequences!

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 38,680

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Originally Posted by El Diablo

27,

Who is Emily g?

Well, she just dropped a pretty big Ed Furlong reference with that gif.

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08-16-2016 , 03:41 AM

#1205

El Diablo

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GM,

At this point it seems like the only thing code is guilty of is saying "oh I really care about you baby" without really meaning it when he wants to **** mlylt.

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08-16-2016 , 03:43 AM

#1206

27offsuit

actions have consequences!

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 38,680

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Originally Posted by El Diablo

The possible anchor baby would solve that problem.

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08-16-2016 , 03:44 AM

#1207

El Diablo

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Dodger,

As tempting and easy as that explanation is, I think it's much more than that and there's a significant emotional component in play as well. Unfortunately, it's not mutual, and she's not yet willing to accept and acknowledge that. Even though she'll prob respond to these posts saying now she totally does, this time.

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08-16-2016 , 03:45 AM

#1208

GMLAW

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El D,

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Originally Posted by El Diablo

GM,

At this point it seems like the only thing code is guilty of is saying "oh I really care about you baby" without really meaning it when he wants to **** mlylt.

Who knows, the source of this tale is "baby."

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08-16-2016 , 03:45 AM

#1209

El Diablo

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27,

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Originally Posted by 27offsuit

The possible anchor baby would solve that problem.

Just if it's code's or also if it's from connection dude?

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08-16-2016 , 03:50 AM

#1210

DodgerIrish

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Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 28,239

it's late - I didn't like my reply to your post bc I misread

Last edited by DodgerIrish; 08-16-2016 at 04:02 AM.

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08-16-2016 , 06:15 AM

#1211

anonla

Cause and effect

Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 5,487

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Originally Posted by GMLAW

El D,

Who knows, the source of this tale is "baby."

Yeah, but the guy is staying in the same apartment with her, although he sees that she is not dealing with it healthy. Don't know....I think that it is pretty dickish from him not to try to gain distance....

It is like when woman sees a guy falling for her.... and she totally doesn't want anything with this guy, but still keeps him warm because it is good for her ego

Don't take me wrong. Her emotional state is her responsibility, but the guy is a butt. And I would never under any circumstances want emotional closeness with such a butt.

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08-16-2016 , 06:20 AM

#1212

GMLAW

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Lapka,

You're only hearing one side of the story is my point.

There might be a perfectly fine reason for him to still live there (like he owns the place), and they agreed to live together until his ex finds a new job and a home.

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08-16-2016 , 06:39 AM

#1213

wateronrock

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Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 518

MLYLT, how much of all of this is your fault? The weight, the job, the kid, Code3, tinder.

If you can't be strong for that innocent kid, there is absolutely no hope for you. None.

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08-16-2016 , 07:11 AM

#1214

owster

old hand

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,430

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Originally Posted by GMLAW

This. Code3 is painted out to be the devil but I'm not sure that's the case.

Also, it's possible to love someone and want to **** them without wanting to stay in a relationship with them, something code even has made very clear many times from what I've read.

Your drama just seema like too much to handle MLYLT and you probably need to mature before trying out another long term relationship.

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08-16-2016 , 07:36 AM

#1215

amead

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Stop sucking his dick and he'll stop telling you that he loves you. Easy breezy.

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08-16-2016 , 08:31 AM

#1216

gregorio

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Wasn't it only after MLYLT physically assaulted him that Code decided he couldn't be in a relationship with her anymore?

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08-16-2016 , 08:48 AM

#1217

ReidLockhart

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Pretty good place to draw a line, no?

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08-16-2016 , 10:02 AM

#1218

DrChesspain

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I explained to her that we will be leaving and he wouldn't be coming, and she always says to him "please forgive me and my mom so we can stay together" she thinks it's her fault! And he responds with"it's not your fault" he thinks I did him wrong!! Ugggh and he is goddam hurting my child!

This is why women with Borderline Personality Disorder should never have children.

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08-16-2016 , 10:22 AM

#1219

TrustyRombone

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Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 1,048

why isn't providing a stable life for your daughter the #1 priority?

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08-16-2016 , 10:33 AM

#1220

tylertwo

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Originally Posted by 27offsuit

I would, but he sounds like more of a pier to my 14yo than me really.

There's no need to drag jmakin into this!

MLYLT, There really doesn't need to be a winner and a loser in all of this, people have different needs and wants that don't necessarily mesh all the time. Do what I do, declare yourself the winner and simply move on.

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08-16-2016 , 10:35 AM

#1221

Larry Legend

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Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 42,920

It looks like Emily G kept it a little too real itt.

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08-16-2016 , 10:41 AM

#1222

Victor

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Update:
The company in Arlington put the position on hold.

The company in east Texas made me an offer of only $69k today and said I have until Wed to accept.

The company I really want to work for wont make an offer until next week.

I had a discussion tonight with code 3 on weather or not I should wait for the job I really want here and pass up on the offer. My mind was made up that I would pass the offer until old asked code 3 if he really wanted to split up. His response, "I don't know how many times I have to tell you that I don't want to be with you" this is after we've been sexing regularly and he's been telling me he loves me every night and acting like everything is okay. I think by me staying here, I'm just holding out hope that he and I would stay together or get back together in the future. I'm going to take the job in Podunk nowhere for little pay to just get away from him and any hope that I have that we will be together. The job is also only about 30mins away from my daughters father, do it will be better for her to have him around more often.

normally I would think you should communicate to the offer company that you need a bit more time in the hope that te company you want to work for comes through. also, I would think it worthwhile to attempt to negotiate a bit more salary.

but no.

take the job in east texas and gtfo jfc. dont do anything to jeopardize that offer. id imagine 69k is pretty decent salary if its really in podunkville.

congrats for real tho. this is a great opportunity.

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08-16-2016 , 10:44 AM

#1223

MeLoveYouLongTime

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Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Yeah he has wants. He knew he didn't want to be with me a year ago and wanted to still live cheap with me there paying half the bills and giving him a steady stream of sex despite how it would hurt me and my child. He's a selfish, self centered jerk.

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08-16-2016 , 10:54 AM

#1224

capone0

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

He might be but you are really stupid for putting up with this ****. You as mentioned by others are an enabler. You put up with too much **** and want change when the person doesn't give two ****s about you or changing. Rinse, repeat, every few weeks you wonder why it keeps happening, when you are a huge reason why it keeps happening. Actually you can easily stop this but you choose not to for hope he'll come crawling back. You must like abuse or putting up with a ton of ****.

Last edited by capone0; 08-16-2016 at 11:01 AM.