All,

I'm pretty impressed Code3 is able to refrain from commenting here. All the character assasination by his ex must be hard, especially when taken at face value by some.

He was only ever interested in sex and cheap rent.

Mlylt,

He may or may not want to be a bachelor forever. None of us have any idea about that.

He just has no desire to have a long term relationship with you, but he is perfectly fine to keep ****ing you for as long as you let him.

He has been perfectly clear about that to you and everyone itt for quite some time.

Not sure what you're looking for anyone itt to "explain" to him. He has been very clear about his position, many itt have clarified that to you, and you've chosen to ignore all that and cling to your own version of this relationship.

That's why I and numerous others long ago stopped responding to your relationship posts, because it was clearly pointless.

How much furniture will Code be left with? Will he be able to watch the Olympics?

Good try GM, but he is already in bed. Maybe he'll pop in tomorrow and explain he did care about me and how it's my fault he didn't show he cared about me and how it's my fault he was with another woman.

You know what makes me sick. He blames me so much that my daughter has picked up on it. I explained to her that we will be leaving and he wouldn't be coming, and she always says to him "please forgive me and my mom so we can stay together" she thinks it's her fault! And he responds with"it's not your fault" he thinks I did him wrong!! Ugggh and he is goddam hurting my child!

:O

ya that's what I've been thinking about most for a while now: your kid

I'm not going to speak to that beyond that

regardless, tinder just got a lot easier for code and his big dick

as a dude, not having a space to bring a girl back to is problem

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Emily I will ****ing BAN you into bolivia if you keep that ish up.

Yous see this is why I don't post here anymore

Bolivian boards?

My daughter is going to be fine (I hope). Code 3 has been there since she was 2 and now she's 5.

I'm moving really close to her father, so he can be a big part of her life now. This is going to be so good for her; we will both get to be a part of her school activities together. I can put her in some activity and we will both be there to support her. She'll be able to see him and his family whenever she wants. The only thing I want for her is to feel as much love from as many people as possible and for her to be happy.

You mean because you're a miserable ****, Emily? Can't say I disagree.

Do you feel like this move is basically permanent then?

If she's 5 there's def a lot of developing still to be done, you're right. That's good.

He should nothing! I mean really, come on....... He has no feelings for you! To expect feelings from anyone is not smart. I mean if they aren't there, then they aren't there. From you to want to explain ANYTHING to him is not smart. YOU should be at least month ago out of this apartment, probably earlier.

COME ON COME ON COME ON!. I know it hurts, that he doesn't love you and you can't do nothing about it. But you HAVE to act so that it hurts less in 6 months from now. Move on!

He is a jerk. He is a jerk because he sees that you are in love with him and doesn't keep the distance to keep the hurt less. But it makes absolutely no sense to want to explain it to him. Move on. PLEEEAAASE!

Yes, if the job goes well. I would much rather live in Dallas, but I don't want to be there alone with my daughter and I certainly don't want her growing up without her father. I never got to have a relationship with my father, and I would never ever want my daughter to go through that. I want him in her life as much as possible.

so finding a better job in Dallas and maybe a landing spot online with a dude is potentially in the cards?

Prbly not in that order.

Mlylt,


*unless code 3 tells me he loves me.

If Ed Furlong posted that it would stay. Not Emily ****ing G though.

Unfortunately EF is nothing more than a highly functioning bobortive afterthought now. Back to Kipin's you go I guess.

I initially moved to Dallas for work, so yes this is possible. If this job doesn't pan out and I can't find another one in the area, I would have to move back for work.

Dodger,


My nephew who I see every weekend is 5. I keep telling my sis they still have a chance to move and save him if they act quick.

27,

Who is Emily g?

Ya, I was going to put 'but like immediately so, the next 3-5 and maybe not even that' but fig'd it would be belaboring it.

MLYLT,

All of your phrasing now is that you're going to do everything you can to stay, that's good. Leaving would be doubly hard on her, even if it's what's the best for you.

This is contingent on dad wanting to play the role you envision. I hope that's the case.

MLYLT,

I am serious. You paint a pretty black picture of his personality (by which you achieve even more amazement from all others because why would anyone stay with such a person), and he's done the adult thing most of the time by not commenting.

So on the one hand we have an ex-lover calling her ex names and describing him as an awful person, on the other hand we have an ex-lover who refrains from commenting. I'm gonna go ahead and say the latter is the most mature person.

That you say you guys still have a physical relationship is nice and all, but that's not that uncommon for ex-lovers. That you're still living with an ex-lover isn't that uncommon also, but it takes the mental capability to realize that it is not a relationship anymore. Code3 seems to realize this. E.g. you can't cheat on someone when there isn't a relationship with that someone.

Move on. Or don't, but don't go through mental gymnastics to make your broken up relationship fit the romantic dream relationship you want it to be.