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06-30-2016 , 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Banned,

Interesting that he only realized he didn't need sex from mlylt after hanging out with sis...
that and mlylt having kissing cousins. lol south
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06-30-2016 , 01:48 PM
He was still at SIL house when he txted me. I think it would be really hard for him to afford the rent on his own if he could at all. He told me directly that there is no long term future with our relationship and he can't have sex with me anymore because he can't forgive/forget me hitting him. I really don't know what I missed or what he thinks I have wrong.
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06-30-2016 , 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Banned,

Interesting that he only realized he didn't need sex from mlylt after hanging out with sis...
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06-30-2016 , 01:57 PM
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He wants me to stay around long enough to pay rent on this place until the lease is up because he can't afford it on his own.
Don't care to go back but didn't he ask you to leave? The sooner the better IIRC.

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We didn't break up till today.
Would have bet you two were already broken up.
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06-30-2016 , 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I know he wanted to get out of going to a 4th of July party with me this weekend.
He wants me to stay around long enough to pay rent on this place until the lease is up because he can't afford it on his own.

I just don't get it. The last couple of weeks have been good. My mom was here for a couple of days and he was great. We were having fun all week. Then last night he goes to podcast with the bitches and he's txting me he can't have sex with me and will never forgive me for hitting him, and he sees me differently now.
What's wrong with what you said:

That I wanted to get out of going to a 4th of July party. This is a family gathering of your family. Why would I want to go to this if we're broken up?

That you keep saying I just want to keep you around to pay rent.

That the last couple of weeks have been good. Just like 3 days ago you went on a 20+ text message tirade cussing me out and telling me you're leaving for good because I literally said hey, maybe there are some issues you should work on and the problem isn't with everyone else.

That somehow things changed when I went to visit my sister and it was because of her, not because you started texting me another stream of drama and nonsense.

That I said I'm not having sex with you anymore, when what I actually said is it's hard to want to be intimate with someone who physically and verbally attacked me several times over a 24 hour period.

So basically everything you said...
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06-30-2016 , 02:23 PM
What I gathered from this post is Code still wants to have sex but you have to initiate it.
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06-30-2016 , 02:24 PM
Code,

Feel free to ignore this, but since you're posting stuff...

If you've decided enough's enough here and it's time for this relationship to be over, why do you think she should be the one who has to leave the place rather than you leaving the place?
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06-30-2016 , 02:30 PM
I never said either one of us has to leave. As far as I'm concerned we can both stay another month or two until the lease is up. She just keeps packing up her stuff and threatening to leave over and over and over. The last time she said that I said fine, the sooner the better. She's not currently working so it would be easier for her to go stay with family for a few weeks though if she can't stand being around me.
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06-30-2016 , 02:32 PM
Code,

But if she says it's not a tenable situation for the two of you to live together any longer and asked you to leave, would you?
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06-30-2016 , 02:34 PM
is this place a single or a double-wide?
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06-30-2016 , 02:49 PM
I would start apartment hunting probably, but the current apartment is in my name so if she stopped paying the rent I would be on the hook for both places for a few months. She'll have to leave when the lease is up anyway since she's not on the lease and won't be able to renew it.
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06-30-2016 , 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I know I sound like a 17 yo girl, but it feels like I'll never love anyone the same way ever again.
I would bet most people have (wrongly) felt that way. I know I have.

Last edited by Bighurt52235; 06-30-2016 at 03:09 PM.
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06-30-2016 , 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I do feel entitled to this place, but he can't afford it on his own and he has no where to go and won't leave. So I'm leaving and he won't be able to afford it.
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Originally Posted by Code 3
I would start apartment hunting probably, but the current apartment is in my name so if she stopped paying the rent I would be on the hook for both places for a few months. She'll have to leave when the lease is up anyway since she's not on the lease and won't be able to renew it.
MLYLT,
Why do you feel entitled to the apartment if your name isn't even on the lease?
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06-30-2016 , 02:56 PM
Code,

That can't be true. I distinctly remember MLYLT stating that you were both on the lease.



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Name on lease?
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Both. Why do you assume it's him. When we first moved in together, he moved in with me in my apartment with all of my stuff. I've been working for many more years than he has.
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06-30-2016 , 03:03 PM
Code,

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Originally Posted by Code 3
She'll have to leave when the lease is up anyway since she's not on the lease and won't be able to renew it.

Why wouldn't she be able to change the lease over to her name?
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06-30-2016 , 03:05 PM
Well, her last apartment we had a disagreement with the leasing company, they claimed we owed another month of rent and I'm 99% sure we don't. They sent the debt to collections though so she couldn't get approved for this apartment so it's just in my name even though it's effectively both of ours in every other way. Just I'm legally on the hook for this one. I've asked her a million times for the lease to the old apartment so I can straighten it out, but she hadn't given it to me yet
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06-30-2016 , 03:55 PM
So you just want to live together for two months as roommates with no sex?
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06-30-2016 , 03:57 PM
Can't you text him
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06-30-2016 , 04:00 PM
MLYLT,

What's so strange about that?
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06-30-2016 , 04:01 PM
Oops, driving thought I was texting lol....i'm doing the voice text thing.
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06-30-2016 , 04:01 PM
Or yell into the other room
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06-30-2016 , 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
How am I manipulative?
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Originally Posted by Code 3
I never said either one of us has to leave. As far as I'm concerned we can both stay another month or two until the lease is up. She just keeps packing up her stuff and threatening to leave over and over and over. The last time she said that I said fine, the sooner the better. She's not currently working so it would be easier for her to go stay with family for a few weeks though if she can't stand being around me.
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06-30-2016 , 04:05 PM
cant you two just find a nice girl to share/****?

everyone wins that way
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06-30-2016 , 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by offTopic
Here's a suggestion:

1) Move all MLYLT/Code3 drama to the Boss thread
2) Change Boss thread to MLYLT/Code3 Containment Thread
3) Lock MLYLT/Code3 Containment Thread
4) Ban both of them
I like 1 and 2 in this situation
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06-30-2016 , 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by jmakin
Last time a couple played out their drama here, someone ended up dead and someone ended up in jail. Maybe this isn't the best place for this ****
shut up
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