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07-12-2016 , 06:14 PM

#801

ec_outlaw

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 15,050

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

North East Texas, a few hrs from Dallas
Im moving out in two weeks. No more hurt, no more drama; Im done!

Riiiiight. You'll never be involved in more drama there. Never. Not you.

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07-12-2016 , 06:14 PM

#802

BluffMyNuts

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 13,211

Damn what kind of rental agreement do you have where you can just abandon your apartment and give two weeks notice.

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07-12-2016 , 06:21 PM

#803

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

He is staying the last month and giving 30days. He is leaving for two weeks to go to California on Monday, and when he gets back I'm moving out. I'm not spending g more that a second longer around him than I have to.

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07-12-2016 , 06:25 PM

#804

BluffMyNuts

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 13,211

Well that works out then

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07-12-2016 , 06:36 PM

#805

amead

veteran

Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 2,472

Might there still be some drama to have in North Texas? I bet we can find some if we bear down and try super hard.

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07-12-2016 , 06:41 PM

#806

trigstarr

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 6,068

i'm sure he can spend a few nights cycling through his stable of girl contacts

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07-12-2016 , 08:07 PM

#807

sumey

veteran

Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,815

i've got this weird feeling that drama kind of follows MLYLT around

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07-12-2016 , 08:29 PM

#808

capone0

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 43,152

Why do you keep doing that? We told you last year for him to hit the curb, you went back and the relationship flopped and you still want more. Why are some people this....desperate.

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07-12-2016 , 08:52 PM

#809

DodgerIrish

Fraudulent Zodiac

Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 28,191

Reading between the lines: I think it's mainly a physical thing and she doesn't think she'll be able to do better/similar elsewhere.

She talks about sex a lot and mainly describes Code in sexual terms.

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07-12-2016 , 09:10 PM

#810

johnzimbo

old hand

Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,739

Northeast Texas is where ALL the engineering jobs are! Way more than a huge metroplex like Dallas/Ft. Worth!

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07-12-2016 , 09:32 PM

#811

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Quote:

Originally Posted by capone0

Why do you keep doing that? We told you last year for him to hit the curb, you went back and the relationship flopped and you still want more. Why are some people this....desperate.

I don't know what's wrong with me. My therapist says I have some traumatic abandonment issues, so when I feel love I grab on tight and grasp at hope, and create a delusion of being loved. He says that Code 3 doesn't really care about me and I can't see it because I've never experienced a healthy relationship and don't know what real love looks like. I'm scared of being abandoned and seeing the truth that I'm not really loved by Code 3 and have created this delusion to keep myself from feeling pain.

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07-12-2016 , 09:53 PM

#812

gregorio

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 39,313

Your therapist is right. Just replace traumatic abandonment issues with borderline personality disorder.

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07-12-2016 , 09:59 PM

#813

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

He doesn't think I have BPD at all. We've already discussed it. He says I'm too open to criticism from him, I'm introspective and have somewhat good control over my emotions.

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07-12-2016 , 10:00 PM

#814

Fabian

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,201

"have somewhat good control over my emotions."

Would you agree with his assessment?

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07-12-2016 , 10:05 PM

#815

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

He said good.....I said somewhat. He thinks I'm very good at articulating my feelings and being logical. I think he gives me a little to much credit.

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07-12-2016 , 10:06 PM

#816

gregorio

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 39,313

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

have somewhat good control over my emotions.

Does he know you beat up code 3?

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07-12-2016 , 10:10 PM

#817

gregorio

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 39,313

All trolling aside, you are very good at taking criticism, at least on 2p2. re: BPD, labels like that can be pretty useless except for how they help inform treatment. Are you and your therapist working on any sort of treatment plan to help with your abandonment issues?

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07-12-2016 , 10:18 PM

#818

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I told him I hit code 3 and all the other issues. He thinks medicine will help with impulse control. He is trying to teach me all the phases of loss/abandonment that apparently I missed during childhood.

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07-12-2016 , 10:22 PM

#819

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Right now he has just been talking a lot about how a person that really cares about you acts because I apparently don't know and keep getting abused or in unhealthy relationships.

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07-12-2016 , 10:32 PM

#820

trigstarr

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 6,068

Seems like you both abused each other. Equal partners in creating the unhealthy relationship.

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07-12-2016 , 10:53 PM

#821

ninetynine99

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 9,238

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I gave him one more chance to choose me

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

My therapist says I have some traumatic abandonment issues, so when I feel love I grab on tight and grasp at hope, and create a delusion of being loved. He says that Code 3 doesn't really care about me and I can't see it because I've never experienced a healthy relationship and don't know what real love looks like. I'm scared of being abandoned and seeing the truth that I'm not really loved by Code 3 and have created this delusion to keep myself from feeling pain.

Your therapist's name is Dr. OOT?

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07-12-2016 , 11:19 PM

#822

27offsuit

actions have consequences!

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 38,535

This is all very depressing.

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07-13-2016 , 12:34 AM

#823

AsianNit

banned

Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 9,881

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I suggest celibacy (by choice, not thrust upon you) until you learn what love is.

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07-13-2016 , 12:55 AM

#824

grando1.0

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 17,111

I dunno if she was a guy her repeated beating of her significant other would put her in jail

Zero sympathy at this stage - although I still think this is all fake