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Old 04-30-2010, 03:21 PM   #151
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but am i going to stop beating off entirely? probably not. now that is a crime too?
it depends on where you do it.

i don't know if i've been as tilted by a thread in a while.
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Old 04-30-2010, 03:25 PM   #152
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5 min is not a lot. is it? neglect the first post anyway, i said i'm stopping. lots of nits in this thread
I wasn't trying to be a nit - I was trying to understand the two statements -

One being - I watch porn every day
Second being - I don't watch a lot of porn

Definitely wasn't trying to call - or calling you a liar.
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Old 04-30-2010, 03:46 PM   #153
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sorry loss tee, just getting it from both sides here. seems like 45% of it is "you *******", another 45% is "you pussy", and 10% actually is trying to improve the situation
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Old 04-30-2010, 03:49 PM   #154
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sorry loss tee, just getting it from both sides here. seems like 45% of it is "you *******", another 45% is "you pussy", and 10% actually is trying to improve the situation
And you're ignoring 100% of that 10%, hence why 90% are calling you a *****.
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Old 04-30-2010, 03:50 PM   #155
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No matter what advice you get - and what the source is -

MOST of the time - you cannot go wrong by trying to make your wife happy. Good marriages require work - and sacrifice.

I agree you've been getting beat up - kudos to you for sticking with the thread
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Old 04-30-2010, 03:50 PM   #156
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And you're ignoring 100% of that 10%, hence why 90% are calling you a *****.
by not watching porn anymore, thats ignoring them? the wife and i are not going to "come to an agreement" on watching porn, or do it together. not happening.

1. gonna try to make her happier by being a better husband
2. not gonna watch porn anymore

so what am i ignoring, exactly?

do i have to stop beating off as well to nonporn?
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:05 PM   #157
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I don't know, ask your wife.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:06 PM   #158
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do i have to stop beating off as well to nonporn?
dude she will be 100x more upset if she catches you beating off to some swimsuit picture than if she caught you playing poker with some porn playing in the background.

stop ignoring the people telling you that this is an opportunity to educate your wife about your sex drive/tastes it will make both of your lives so much better arghgnkafdgaghn
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:09 PM   #159
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Did I miss something here? Is this really just about fapping and porn? Is that why your wife was looking in the browser history in the first place?

I get the idea something else is going on in this marriage. I mean besides the fact that OP is married to a lawyer, ldo.

There is a fundamental lack of trust underlying this issue that tells me that this marriage is doomed. Sorry, OP.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:10 PM   #160
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dude, we did talk about it. we have different natural, biological sex drives. i like it waaaay more than she does. nothing we can do together or otherwise will change that, despite the opinion of many in here that it is all mental or emotional.

so i guess i'll just beat off and stare at the wall then. is that kosher?
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:15 PM   #161
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for the record, and by the way thanks for the reasonable previous post, i am not going to look at porn. goddamn i feel like tiger woods, i don't even look at porn that much. nonetheless, no porn. i am dropping it cold turkey. but i'm not going to stop fapping. sorry. and if that means doing it to the girls of facebook thread on 2p2, so be it. i don't think that is lying, and i dont think that is unreasonable or deceitful. yes, i'm going to try to be a better husband as well.
Do you really think you can go back to using swimsuit pictures after being accustomed to internet porn? I really don't think you're being honest with yourself about this situation, and you're admittedly not being honest with your wife about it.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:15 PM   #162
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My girlfriend has found out that I still masturbate even though we are together. She does not like this.. she says she has to be not providing me something for me to go and seek self pleasure. I told her that it has nothing to do with anything she does or doesn't do, that it is a SELF pleasure thing that I can just do by MYSELF and enjoy MYSELF. She said she still doesn't agree with it, and I said you don't have to agree with it.. you don't have to like it, but that doesn't mean I won't keep doing it.

She didn't like that much but meh, I would never tell her what she can and can't do.. and she sure as hell won't be able to tell me. If she was my wife, it would be the same situation.. and if it became too big a problem, I would divorce her for being a control freak and insecure.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:16 PM   #163
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Do you really think you can go back to using swimsuit pictures after being accustomed to internet porn? I really don't think you're being honest with yourself about this situation, and you're admittedly not being honest with your wife about it.
i honestly think i can beat off to a picture of some chick in a bikini
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:25 PM   #164
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i honestly think i can beat off to a picture of some chick in a bikini
I'd be willing to bet that for the sake of argument, bikini pictures of 19-year-old girls is equal to (and actually probably much worse) than internet porn. You are not winning the masturbation battle on a technicality.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:35 PM   #165
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You are not winning the masturbation battle on a technicality.
in the history of mankind, i wonder how many times that has been spoken
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:36 PM   #166
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A lack of sex drive is almost always the result of environment -- what have you done to actually create an environment where she would have an active sex drive?
You must be under 40?
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:39 PM   #167
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I'd be willing to bet that for the sake of argument, bikini pictures of 19-year-old girls is equal to (and actually probably much worse) than internet porn. You are not winning the masturbation battle on a technicality.
This. Or the SL Facebook thread which he mentioned earlier. I would think that most women would say that the closer the material is to real life opportunities the worse the offense is.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:39 PM   #168
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i honestly think i can beat off to a picture of some chick in a bikini
Just make sure it's your wife's niece or something IMO.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:41 PM   #169
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How about a counselor? There is a clear communication problem that has manifested into a trust problem. Pay $100/hr and learn how to communicate.
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:42 PM   #170
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LOL just had a two hour talk. It was 99% other BS and 1% porn. Thank God I'm not (caught) banging hookers.
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Had to make promise to stop watching porn. Actually I offered that. And also actually I'm really going to try.
But the heat wasn't so bad I think deep down shed probably rather I fap
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:43 PM   #171
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Probably every single man she's ever spoken to about the subject has lied to her giving her an extremely warped perspective of what men are like.

She sounds like an up tight hag, and I think any guy that has ever even been on a date with her would understand pretty quickly that discussing anything even slightly taboo is off limits with her (and if they didnt, they were probably kicked to the curb pretty fast).


It's hard to say how the balance of power is in your relationship and how unreasonable her request is. Maybe she married far beneath her means so that she would have leverage in coercing her spouse into complying with all of her neurotic requests. I know a couple who basically fits that description. If you've always been so spineless, maybe that's what drew her to you.

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Old 04-30-2010, 04:46 PM   #172
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by not watching porn anymore, thats ignoring them? the wife and i are not going to "come to an agreement" on watching porn, or do it together. not happening.

1. gonna try to make her happier by being a better husband
2. not gonna watch porn anymore
you're not a bad husband b/c you like porn; she's the unreasonable one here

a lot of wives don't have a problem with porn and/or actually enjoy integrating in into the sex life

your wife is uptight and unreasonable in this regard, and it's up to you if her other redeeming qualities are strong enough to offset this emotional hangup of hers

i'm not advising you to hand her an ultimatum btw, but you should realize she's the one with the problem here, not you.

ppl who cave to unreasonable wives tilt the hell out of me, my best friend is getting soulcrushed by his terribad wife and it just kills me to watch it
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:53 PM   #173
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Stop watching porn already.
If not, you're gonna get hairy palm ldo!
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Old 04-30-2010, 04:56 PM   #174
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ppl who cave to unreasonable wives tilt the hell out of me, my best friend is getting soulcrushed by his terribad wife and it just kills me to watch it
It's always freaked me out when my husband's friends need "permission" to do something? Really? Are you raising a child or are you married to an adult?
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:04 PM   #175
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It's always freaked me out when my husband's friends need "permission" to do something? Really? Are you raising a child or are you married to an adult?
It's happening to all my friends.

Also, OP wears the vag in the family ldo. This thread reads like we're talking about someone from my parent's generation. Hell, even most of my friends parents had porn stashed away.
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