Right, and this makes perfect sense, and the simplest rational and reasonable solution to this is that she lets you watch porn. If she won't compromise on this, then really, she's so unbelievably selfish that she is not worth being with. If you choose to be with her anyway, then you are, like so many in this thread have pointed out, pretty much just signing away any shred of equality in your relationship and letting her dominate you. Might as well put on a chastity belt.

It's this.

You're leveling now right? Are you really trying to gain cred by saying, "O yah well i still whack it! Just to rando facebook photos now! I sure showed her!"

If you dealt with the IRS the way you deal with your wife your ass would be in jail. The phrase "the spirit of the law" keeps popping up in my head. You're clearly not communicating your needs to your wife.

She's a lawyer so she has no need whatsoever to try and take money from you if you divorce. What the hell is wrong with letting her know that you have needs sexually that she obviously isn't willing or able to fulfill? Are you that scared she's going to leave you?

This thread is reason 256742 why I'm never getting married.

Because all lawyers have more money then they want and make more than their spouses?

If OP makes more than his wife he wouldn't have married her, ldo. He would have married a trophy wife and signed a prenup. Duh.

If, OP, you do make more than your wife you should probably just drive your car off a cliff for being stupid.

I can't wait for your wife to check your browsing history again and find this little gem.

people who don't understand how women think itt

omg....I'm still on the first page but I will stop reading now to avoid having a massive stroke (no pun intended). There are obv a lot of unmarrieds in OOT....

OP,

I had a conversation with my girlfriend about this thread the end of it came down to, 'What can i do to make you want to **** me more than other women?'

me: 'it's really sad acknowledging this but there's very little you could do. It's just the male way. If you did everything to satisfy me as much as possible the next day i'd still rather **** your identical twin sister.'

Obviously that seems heartless and in realistic terms i wouldn't because of the guilt/moral/risk it would put on our relationship but if the whole world was out to please you and you had the pick of it it's unfornately true.

It seems extremely strange and weird to me that you don't want to **** you GF more than other women. Why are you with her again?

Yeah that does seem pretty weird. Why are you with this girl when you'd rather bone some random chick?

game/set/match

Thanks for the contribution to the thread....

Grunch: Lots of women view looking at porn as cheating.

It's absurd, but women hate their spouse thinking about having sex with someone else almost as much as they hate their spouse actually having sex with someone else.

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...-cheating.html
Also:
http://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/marie-...porn-adultery/

I have read that there are also men out there who believe it's cheating

Wild stuff.

So OP is married 8 years and this is the first time he gets caught? Either something else has happened in the relationship recently, OP has super-stealth powers of fapping, or this is a level. As for the grovelling "compromise", I will not be as blunt as some of the other responses itt but suffice to say it will not end well.

Because he has already ****ed her. Other women are new, and she's not.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

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There is something wrong with you,
there is definitely nothing wrong with him.
watching porn is cheating in your opinion
blame your look for his mistake.
you are not perfect.
stop talking to him and that how much that hurts you,
he thinks that you are not attractive any more
this is a super standard,
you guys need no profissional help or
you need to get out of this marriage.

appreciate yourself more.

WH reply

2+2 reply

There is something wrong with you,
there is definitely nothing wrong with him.
watching porn is cheating in your opinion
blame your look for his mistake.
you are not perfect.
stop talking to him and that how much that hurts you,
he thinks that you are not attractive any more
this is a super standard,
you guys need no profissional help or
you need to get out of this marriage.

appreciate him more.

Are you Oprah?

lol!

"And if you'll all look under your chairs, you'll find a Fleshlight and TISSUES!"

Why do you have the computer in the kitchen?

b/c he realizes no matter what girl he's with he will always want the other ones?

this might be the problem, men seeking advice about women from men and women seeking advice about men from women

Thread still tilts me. Why do so many men marry neurotic women?