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07-28-2010 , 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by MicroBob
Just in a "convincing herself" kind of way is all I mean really. There actually is some debate regarding the legitimacy of what this chick supposedly has and how common it is. This has been brought up earlier in the thread. So my observation isn't completely outrageous or anything.

I'm kind of thinking of something sort of similar to that coma kid who was able to communicate via a facilitator and everyone involved. The mom, the doctor and even the facilitator herself had all been able to convince themselves that the communication from the coma kid was indeed genuine. And this is evidently not uncommon at all...where the coma kid's IQ just happens to end up roughly matching the IQ of the facilitator after they had been not communicating for 10+ years or whatever.
ah, gotcha.

Then, to answer your question: "Yes, there is a remote possibility." However, is it a Jen McCarthy-vaccine possibility, or more of one that falls within the current debate?

Sounds a bit like the ADD diagnoses that have become more common. You wonder....
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07-28-2010 , 02:38 PM
I had to look up Jen McCarthy vaccines on google as I had no idea what you were talking about. Umm...wow.
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07-28-2010 , 02:47 PM
Anyway..speaking of hypnosis: Has this idea ever been considered for helping her through some of the various issues she's having?
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07-28-2010 , 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Lottery Larry
I'm nowhere close to a HP, but my vague thought was that the personalities, while "distinct", were just manifestations of the core person.

So, while they are "different", it's just a more radical version of moods, aspects of one's personality, etc.

Remember, IANAHP, so the block of salt that goes with this is pretty large.
FFS man, I've already exceeded my recommended daily sodium intake, put that **** in spoilers.
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07-28-2010 , 02:48 PM
Meh.. I think that the sentence "DID does not exist" doesn't really mean anything. There are people who behave like Michelle. Trying to explain why they behave like that and seeing about changing how they behave seems like a good idea.
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07-28-2010 , 02:49 PM
I'm guessing you only asked Michelle about the thread so, what do the others think about it? Have they read it? And who do you think would be the most upset about it?
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07-28-2010 , 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by AKSpartan
FFS man, I've already exceeded my recommended daily sodium intake, put that **** in spoilers.
LOL- wp, sir, wp!
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07-28-2010 , 02:54 PM
I do wonder about the eventual outcome if people named their more extreme moods. I think most people would, over time, come to think of them as somewhat distinct from the central personality. Since it seems common for these alternate personalities to express something the main one couldn't, MPD could be understood as assigning spokespersons for oneself. And if so, what would that mean for treatment? Should others refuse to address the "newcomers"?
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07-28-2010 , 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by MicroBob
Anyway..speaking of hypnosis: Has this idea ever been considered for helping her through some of the various issues she's having?
I don't understand this at all microbob. On one hand you are suggesting the disorder could be fake and brought on by the therapist in the next bit you suggest hypnosis???

As for how to treat DID. You do not neccesarily even have to address the personalities but just target the anxiety and trauma that brought them on. I know some therapists will do integration but I really know little about that (much of the research is single case studies).
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07-28-2010 , 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by NoahSD
Meh.. I think that the sentence "DID does not exist" doesn't really mean anything. There are people who behave like Michelle.

Right. I agree.

I'm just kind of curious about the whole aspect of how uncontrollable/controllable it is as well as how potentially contrived it might be. That type of thing.

But it's definitely a really gray and blurry area when you are asking stuff like, "does she REALLY not remember what happened...or does she just CONVINCE herself she doesn't remember what happened?" If she THINKS she doesn't remember then I guess she doesn't remember.

My fiance is a nurse at a hospital and every once in awhile ends up with some mental dude or really drugged out person (or both) who walks around trying to shake everyone's hand and introducing themselves as Michael Jackson or President Clinton or something. So yeah...some people are kind of weird and it comes in varying degrees.

Anyway, back to my original point that I think consulting with another expert or two would be worthwhile. The chick has developed 4 new personalities in just the past few years and it seems really odd to me that the doctor would just be cool with that.
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07-28-2010 , 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by MicroBob
Anyway, back to my original point that I think consulting with another expert or two would be worthwhile.
Definitely agree with this. Some doctors are really good and some really suck balls.
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07-28-2010 , 03:03 PM
http://www.mediafire.com/?dbotz04kc09t5pd

Short video I uploaded from my phone and converted to wmv. If there's sound I can't hear it. This is of Little Michelle drawing something, I don't remember what. You'll notice she's using her left hand (though she's right-handed), which is something Little Michelle randomly does sometimes when drawing/painting/whatever.
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07-28-2010 , 03:11 PM
Didn't want to poop the party before but since it has come up now... I'm also one to consider this whole thing pretty hoaxy.

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Originally Posted by sharpyetblunt
yeah thats it, shes just acting up for a bit of drama, thats exactly what it sounds like.
Yeah, it does actually.

She's obv bat**** to be such an extreme drama queen and I'm sure she believes all of this is "real". But the problem is that she's a bat**** drama queen and can convince herself of her incredible bs. The problem isn't some ****ing split personality mumbo jumbo that BAM came down from the blue sky to possess an honest reasonable girl.

Entertaining thread anyway though, please continue.

Last edited by Vantek; 07-28-2010 at 03:17 PM.
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07-28-2010 , 03:12 PM
http://www.isst-d.org/education/Adul...D-JTD-2005.pdf

Those interested in treatment/assessment might find this interesting. Be warned very long and techinical (but anyone with college degree can follow it).
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07-28-2010 , 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Vantek
The problem isn't some ****ing split personality mumbo jumbo that BAM came down from the blue sky to possess an honest reasonable girl.
then what IS the problem? she's crazy just not oh gosh, she can't have multiple personalties!! i mean that's fantasy. in fact it's downright....crazy!

What exactly would you say is her problem and how exactly would you go about solving it?
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07-28-2010 , 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Vantek
Didn't want to poop the party before but since it has come up now... I'm also one to consider this whole thing pretty hoaxy.


Yeah, it does actually.

She's obv bat**** to be such an extreme drama queen and I'm sure she believes all of this is "real". But the problem is that she's a bat**** drama queen and can convince herself of her incredible bs. The problem isn't some ****ing split personality mumbo jumbo that BAM came down from the blue sky to possess an honest reasonable girl.

Entertaining thread anyway though, please continue.
If its real to her and shes convinced of it then doesnt that make it real? if she believes she has split personalities then she actually does have split personalities so what exactly is your point? Of course she has mental issues and her brain is trying to deal with them. Not mumbo jumbo really.

What about amnesia? another example of a bs drama queen illness? It just seems cos you cant understand it and have never encountered it you choose to believe that they must be making it up cos you cant comprehend it.

Last edited by sharpyetblunt; 07-28-2010 at 03:36 PM. Reason: no one actually believes there are multiple people possessing her if thats what you mean.
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07-28-2010 , 03:37 PM
Too bad she's not asexual.
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07-28-2010 , 03:47 PM
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It just seems cos you cant understand it and have never encountered it you choose to believe that they must be making it up cos you cant comprehend it.

The fact that many experts are suspicious and also doubt its legitimacy might also have something to do with it too.
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07-28-2010 , 03:48 PM
I got infarcted for trolling lol, so I guess I can't answer you guys, sorry.
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07-28-2010 , 03:49 PM
I want to point out that I wasn't trying to troll. I was legitimately interested in the cognizance of LM of BM and how that played a roll in the psyche of both?
I guess that's a way to put it.
Like, if little Michelle is aware she's not actually 9 but really is 23 then why does she still think and act like she's 9 kind of thing.
It's a mind **** when I think about it and I'm just having a really hard time grasping the concept.
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07-28-2010 , 03:50 PM
Vantek must straddle that ban line so often its unreal.
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07-28-2010 , 03:52 PM
This was actually my first infraction ever. Didn't see it coming either.
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07-28-2010 , 03:54 PM
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07-28-2010 , 04:00 PM
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Vantek must straddle that ban line so often its unreal.
You would think, and I was surprised it was as well, but his comment here...

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This was actually my first infraction ever. Didn't see it coming either.
..appears to be correct. And mostly it's because I have already said that if people want to have the "is DiD real" conversation, to have it elsewhere. If you have a question like "OP are you willing to believe that this might all be faked by her," that is ok. But I don't want this thread turning into some SMP version of a politics nit-a-thon on if the disease is real or not. This thread is not about if it is real, this thread is about someone discussing his experiences of being with someone who is diagnosed with it (again, real or not is irrelevant).

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I want to point out that I wasn't trying to troll. I was legitimately interested in the cognizance of LM of BM and how that played a roll in the psyche of both?
I guess that's a way to put it.
Like, if little Michelle is aware she's not actually 9 but really is 23 then why does she still think and act like she's 9 kind of thing.
It's a mind **** when I think about it and I'm just having a really hard time grasping the concept.
It is, indeed. The cognizance questions were fine as well. Some people (don't recall if you were one) started imposing the morality of it in there, and that's less fine, and also kind of off topic.

Look all, we have someone who has been kind enough to share a very entertaining thread with us, and been a good sport about a lot of the cruder comments that have been posted. I'd like to keep the whole thing civil if possible.

(In before "what forum are you in again?" :P)
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07-28-2010 , 04:06 PM
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And mostly it's because I have already said
Ah OK. I have been following this thread but I somehow missed that.

It makes sense really, and your decision was correct. I was just posting something that was on my mind after other people had mentioned it and then answering when people quoted me. But I wouldn't want this thread to get derailed either, it's pretty sweet.

So... Does Little Michelle like anal?

No she doesn't
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