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actually a lot of fun, I had two guys running ice cubes all over me which felt neat. Personally I like the restriction and not being able to move, which us also part if why I like being tied up.

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10-05-2011 , 12:10 PM

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KPowers

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Yeah that sounds like something you'd see going on in a Gulag to me. I get uncomfortable thinking about it. eek!

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10-05-2011 , 12:28 PM

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dirtydiana73

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I always found swinging to be dangerous:

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10-05-2011 , 03:23 PM

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Redtuber

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You had mentioned you both look to discuss and broaden your sexual fantasies. What fantasies of each other's have you fulfilled?

4+ girls at once?
Multi-cultural orgies?
Public sex Olympics?
Top Chef night-Sex Edition?

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10-05-2011 , 04:10 PM

#206

CanadianSwinger

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Originally Posted by Redtuber

Well we did do a couple of role playing sessions. One where we pretended that I had ordered a prostitute (her) and used her for sex in an uncaring way. That was really fun. We did one other one where we did the babysitter fantasy, but she thought it was too weird and it wasn't doing it for me either so we kyboshed it. She's also indulged me in my love of garters and stockings. Just need her to do an older woman seduction fantasy for me.

Nothing crazy involving other partners.

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10-05-2011 , 04:23 PM

#207

Redtuber

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Oh, I like these.

Maybe have her dress up in 80's style aerobics gear and fulfill the Jane Fonda/Older Woman/Nostalgia fanstasy in one shot.

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10-05-2011 , 05:44 PM

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superleeds

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Originally Posted by CanadianSwinger

Well we did do a couple of role playing sessions. One where we pretended that I had ordered a prostitute (her) and used her for sex in an uncaring way. That was really fun. We did one other one where we did the babysitter fantasy, but she thought it was too weird and it wasn't doing it for me either so we kyboshed it. She's also indulged me in my love of garters and stockings. Just need her to do an older woman seduction fantasy for me.

Nothing crazy involving other partners.

Number 1 thing I love my wife doing.

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10-05-2011 , 05:53 PM

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oddjob

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Will you guys ever participate in a 3 way couple swap?

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10-05-2011 , 07:08 PM

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bingobars

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Dumb question but at the end of a swing session is there an awkwardness in any way?

Do you and the guy part with a handshake? And you and the girl a kiss on the cheek?

How has this gone in the past?

I kind of picture these things ending like a 1 night stand for some reason

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10-05-2011 , 07:42 PM

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GodSmackJack

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Yeah that is something we really need to take care off as they are getting to the age where they can work stuff like that without our input

When I was 12 I found pictures of my stepmom and dad going at it. That kind of **** stays with you, man. Handle your bizzness.

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10-05-2011 , 08:38 PM

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TheGunslinger

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When you and your wife go on a date with a new couple, how do you two tell each other whether you're interested in going further with them? Do you use code signals, or do you have to have a quick private meeting to make sure both of you want to hook up? Have you ever met another couple who was really ready to swap with you two, but you and/or your wife weren't interested, and you had to tell them thanks but no thanks? How awkward is that?

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10-06-2011 , 12:37 PM

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CanadianSwinger

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Originally Posted by oddjob

Will you guys ever participate in a 3 way couple swap?

Like an orgy kind of thing? I don't think we'd have anything against that provided we were into everyone involved.

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10-06-2011 , 12:40 PM

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Never had a one night stand so not sure how those end. Typically I shake hands with the husband, kiss the wife and the wives typically kiss each other good night as well. Not awkward at all.

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10-06-2011 , 12:48 PM

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CanadianSwinger

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Originally Posted by TheGunslinger

We have a code phrase "We should get back and rescue the baby sitter" or something along those lines if we're not into them. There was only one couple whom we met, but didn't want anything to do with them, but they didn't want to do a swap anyway. So not too awkward and the rejection happened online anyway.

The first couple we hooked up with, we thought we had a good time, but then they didn't return our messages and promptly defriended us on aff. That was the only real awkward moment for us.

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10-06-2011 , 12:55 PM

#216

P0nzi

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cs
when your wife doesnt wanna ****/blow you and you really want it, do you get mad/jealous because the day before or whatever she was ****ing/blowing some random dude?

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10-06-2011 , 03:12 PM

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Tyler Durden

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Originally Posted by CanadianSwinger

We have a code phrase "We should get back and rescue the baby sitter" or something along those lines if we're not into them.

Arrrrghhhh! My g/f KNEW you didn't really have to get back and rescue the baby sitter. So you think we're ugly, is that it???

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10-06-2011 , 06:10 PM

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Never had a one night stand so not sure how those end.

great thread CS, but c'mon bro.

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10-06-2011 , 09:32 PM

#219

CanadianSwinger

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Originally Posted by P0nzi

cs
when your wife doesnt wanna ****/blow you and you really want it, do you get mad/jealous because the day before or whatever she was ****ing/blowing some random dude?

I admittedly have gotten mad in a similar situation. Basically we had hooked up with the aforementioned couple, where the man is very well endowed. She was sore afterwards and didn't want to have sex, so I was a little upset about that.

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great thread CS, but c'mon bro.

Don't know what to tell you. I'd only had one other partner other than my wife before we started this. How do one night stands usually end? Is it pretty awkward or is it more like I described parting with a couple is?

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10-06-2011 , 10:22 PM

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Tyler Durden

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It's not awkward, not when you leave before she wakes up.

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10-07-2011 , 01:16 AM

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ligastar

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Originally Posted by CanadianSwinger

How do one night stands usually end? Is it pretty awkward or is it more like I described parting with a couple is?

it is typically awkward when the hook up was a co-worker or someone that runs around in your group of friends. and the next morning when both parties pretty much know it is a one night stand can get awkward. all that being said, as you get older then both parties pretty much can be cool with just the notion of it.

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10-07-2011 , 11:10 AM

#222

bingobars

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The Walk of Shame

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10-07-2011 , 11:12 AM

#223

SGT RJ

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Originally Posted by CanadianSwinger

With a hangover.

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10-07-2011 , 04:57 PM

#224

Whose2know

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There has got to be something wrong b/c no man would want to see his girl get plowed by another guy. That thought would always be in the back of my mind and would irratate the **** outta me. Not sure how you can deal with that unless you really just don't give a **** about her like that. Or you just put up with the disgust in order to get yourself some strange.

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10-07-2011 , 04:59 PM

#225

Whose2know

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Originally Posted by CanadianSwinger

Never had a one night stand so not sure how those end. Typically I shake hands with the husband, kiss the wife and the wives typically kiss each other good night as well. Not awkward at all.

****ing halarious. Yea thanks ROB for plowing my wife. You really got here there. I especially love when you grabbed her hair and ****ed her hard from behing. That was great. Let me shake your hand.

The **** dude? Really? There is only a special breed of people that can do this.

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