What does dp stand for?

double penetration

what does ls stand for?

Wow something about watching my lady getting pumped by another kok would just be a deal killer, you know?

Lifestyle aka the swinger lifestyle.

You'd think so, and I had the same concern, but it's actually quite erotic. It's kind of cool to see her from a different perspective.

I think a lot of these feelings stem not only from insecurities, but also from a sense of posessiveness. Once you can let those go. It can be very liberating. That's not to say that I'm completely free of those feelings.

Possessiveness probably comes from the fact that she's your partner.

Have you ever tried filming and then watching yourselves have sex? Different perspective, kinda spicy, could be fun.

Are you actively friends with the couples. Do you ever just call up the husband to watch the game etc?

You can't like own a wife man. I know what you mean, but what I'm getting at is, if you are able to have trust in your partner and know that no matter what happens, they are coming home with you, then you can really enjoy the show.

As for filming, we've kicked the idea around. One thing is that the sex you're having is always way crazier in your mind than in reality. Anyone out there film themselves having sex? How was it?

We are friends with a few of the couples and we've hung out in a non swinging context. Another couple with whom we almost hooked up, but I had to call it off, because the husband was just way too trashed for my comfort, we've hung out with them and their kids. It's really not weird at all, even though you'd think it'd be awkward.

The wife and I have done this. Was a lot of fun, and funny when the cat decided to check out the video camera for a few minutes which we only realized when watching it afterwards.

aha i did this (camera) w/my girlfriend. She notices the light on and says, "Is that thing on? Turn it off!" So I go over and pretend to turn it off, but don't...it's still filming. Then about 2 minutes later she is getting heated up and says, "Ya know what, go turn it on!" So I have to go pretend to turn it back on again...

There's an interesting relationship between kinky people and swingers. A lot of kinky people are poly but not swingers, we also use a lot of the same clubs, but there's been several instances of the swingers coming to the fet area and doing things like touching without asking, so the two groups don't really get along. I had a swinger gut come up and start touching me while I was in a vac bed and couldn't move, thankfully my friend got him to stop. Obviously this isn't indicative of all swingers and I have no problem with them personally, just saying they don't always mix well. Plus he said no pain and they don't seem to havea D/s relationship so Fetlife might not be up their alley.

Personally we have almost the opposite rules as op, we can have relationships and play with other people but no sex.

Do you guys play it up for the camera? Like extra dirty talk, or anything else that you might not do if the camera weren't on?

There are definitely a segment of the swinger population that is into BDSM, like you said, some swinger clubs tend to hold a BDSM night. That's really too bad about your experience with some swingers touching without asking.

Can you elaborate on what "having relationships with other people" means? Like I can understand that you might want to have one-on-one play time with another partner. Is that what you mean or is there more to it?

Also, sorry if I missed this somewhere, but where in Canada are you?

What's a vac bed?

well there was one guy I was seeing for a few months. My husband was working nights so sometimes after work I would go to my "other man's" house and stay the night, with my husbands knowledge of course. Sometimes we would play; getting tied up, spanking, hot wax, flogging, etc, sometimes we would just hang out and watch south park. We would kiss and make out, and all that, but basically anything covered by a thong was off limits.

google it. You're between two sheets if latex and the air is sucked out with a vacuum, so you can move but you can still feel everything. Its fun with ice cubes, out it can be lubed up and others can massage you/ feel you up

We have only done it the once. We had just moved into our new house and during the emptying of boxes we found the old camcorder we had. It's old but it plugs into the TV so you can watch as you record. Anyway one night after the kids are in bed and asleep my wife has just had a shower and saunters over and asks 'shall we go to bed?'

I tell her I have an idea and why doesn't she go and put some sexy lingerie on and come back downstairs. Whilst she is getting ready I set up the camera. She quite liked the idea when she realized

I wouldn't say we hammed it up or anything but we definately caught each other checking it out on the TV. Also we didn't really do anything different, maybe a couple of extra changes in position, a bit more foreplay than usual but nothing way out of the ordinary.

It was fun, maybe I should find it again

Make sure you forget about that video and leave it around for your kids to find someday.

As a latch-key kid I can tell you I saw many naked neighborhood parents in picture and video form growing up.

Yeah that is something we really need to take care off as they are getting to the age where they can work stuff like that without our input

watch it one last time and then burn it...

like superleeds, was just once, but really recent. We discussed it prior which was what i think tipped her off it was running. I was the one to bring up trying it and she seemed reluctant. I planned to tell her immediately after. Don't think we did anything much differently other then maybe trying to make sure certain things were seen. What was superhot was how excited it made her, and I just fed off of that. She said it felt like we were being watched or something and went kinda crazy with the orgasms and howling. And then watching it afterward was like, wow. Then she erased it on me.

We have had sex in front of the webcam with someone else watching, due Yo angles they couldn't really see anything below the waist, it was totally spur of the moment, I was chatting with my aforementioned "other man" and the hubby came in and started going down on me but told me to keep talking, it continued from there...

Sounds awesome! Definitely want to try this now. Although my wife is like yours superleeds. She'd probably delete it after watching it.

Wow, from the description on wikipedia, sounds terrifying. How was your first experience in something like that?