All the terribly unfunny people trying to make jokes,

Shut up.

-KPowers

Most funny incidents are more just the pathetic ways that single guys who are posing as a couple try to fool you. Most of the time they're easy to spot from a mile away. We have had some friends show up to a date only to realize that the couple had put up pictures that were easily a decade old.

Haven't seen zebra lounge. Sounds interesting though although judging by your last statement I have a feeling I know how it ends. Neither of us was abused lol. How long till divorce? Prolly about tree fiddy. It feels a little weird when the other guy is huge, but tbh my wife doesn't like really big dick. In fact we can't really play often with this one couple because she gets way too sore afterwards.

legit question: what is the primary methods you and your wife use for new swinging? craigslist? swinger bars? and are there ever people who roll up solo? I have one really gross friend who "swings" but he isn't even married or dating. He finds couples where the guy just likes to watch his wife get plugged. Is that normal iyo?

Well I was pretty lucky as it was my wife that brought it up. She had had MFF threesomes in the past and I knew that she was bi. So we had always tossed around the idea of adding another woman. We were driving to another city and she brought it up again asking if having an MFF threesome was still something I was interested in. So of course my answer was yes. We then started talking about how we would actually go about setting one up. We signed up for an account on AFF and that was that.

I can definitely see how that initial conversation can be really awkward. I think the best way to go about it is to introduce it as a fantasy, during sex, perhaps with just some dirty talk about it. If your partner is receptive, you can then bring it up and to say hey what do you think of actually doing that?

Ah, well no, I've only been a poster on this site.

I don't think that's the case. With the internet it's a lot easier and a lot less intimidating for couples to get into it. You can easily set up an account and browse profiles. It's also a lot easier to get information about clubs, and just general resources about swinging. Also it's a lot less taboo for a woman to be bisexual, which I think leads to more people getting into the lifestyle.

We primarily use AFF and Lifestyle Lounge. Craigslist seems pretty sketchy and I don't think we'd ever use it. From what I understand it's pretty common for guys to want to watch their wife get plowed by another guy(s). It's not for us, but my understanding is that it's pretty common. I think a lot of couples just do it because it's super easy to find a guy, whereas, with couples there needs to be a 4 way connection which is sometimes hard to find. And single females are almost impossible to find.

Kpowers,

I hope all your children grow up to be very masculine.


- ND



OP,

You seem pretty easy going and not prone to jealousy. Would there be anything that your wife could do that would cause you to stop swinging?
If she met one of the couples without you knowing would you consider that "cheating?"

Props to you for not committing suicide in this situation.

Thanks, although it's funny I actually can get a little jealous. My wife can be really flirtatious and I actually get a little uncomfortable when she takes it over the top. I'm more shy so it's more difficult for me to hit on other women, so I start to feel left out. It's one of the reasons I prefer smaller gatherings or one on one to large parties.

I think what would cause us to stop swinging is, if I felt that she might be falling for another guy/girl. Your example I would definitely consider that cheating and would be another catalyst for us to stop swinging.

You know tbh I think we've been conditioned by porn to think that all women crave big dick. Whereas this is true of some women, it's not true for the majority. Mind you they don't necessarily enjoy small dick, but you definitely don't need 8+ to satisfy a woman. It's much more about technique and your oral prowess.

Thanks for making this thread. It is a very entertaining read. A couple questions...

Are you/your wife willing to have sex with African Americans/Asians or another ethinc couple?

pierced genetalia acceptable or no?

Assuming 1 or 2 tattoos are ok, but what about a ridiculous amount of tattoos?

Ever wait till the next day to kiss your wife after she took another guy's spooge?

Ever have an issue with something your wife did with a partner..whether it be making out too aggressively, licking his balls/taint, acting a little ridiculously, etc. Details?

What is your strategy for love making during the swap... outlast the other male.... come asap... be the aggressive alpha male or the attentive lover eager to please... ?

Thank you in advance.

ILBB



P.S. pics of your wife with eyes blacked out FTW!

Very interesting topic, I have a few questions that hopefully you can answer.

Is anything off limits when you swap partners?

If the other guy has anal sex with your wife do you automatically get to have anal with his wife?

You rope his wife across the face is he gonna do the same to your wife or finish somewhere else?

What if the other guy is a 2 pump chump and you're still banging his wife, does he just sit there watching while you bang both women?

care to post pics from aff of some of your past encounters?

LOL, reading this made me picture a couple who have just met at one of these parties. They launch into a discussion about the middle east peace talks. The woman goes into a long, well-articulated dialogue about the obstacles the region faces if its ever to establish peace. The man is impressed with her perspective and compliments her on the depth of her knowledge and then cums on her face.

lol

Pics of CSWife please so I can decide if I want to bang her and let you watch.

tia

Your wife is a very clever woman.

The last line had me almost choking!

I have been in similiar situations several times (except more chicks than dudes). I will not answer questions. Great thread idea.

Edit... lol at anyone refering to a 'friend' itt.

Do you have a mustache? Do a disproportionate amount of male swingers sport mustaches?

For some reason I imagine every male swinger looking something like this

did you make out with her after taht?

Not into african americans/canadians, into some asians. It's really an attraction thing for us.

I'd have to ask my wife, but I would guess she wouldn't want a pierced ****. I think I'd be ok with a pierced clit.

A lot of people in the ls have tattoos, so one or two can be cool. If they're covered in them though that's a turn off.

She doesn't let others come in her mouth (she rarely does it for me lol) so not really an issue.

Nothing that bothered me during sex. I already made mention of the way she sometimes gets really flirtatious at parties and how that bothers me a bit part of the reason we try to avoid large parties now.

It really depends on the partner and what they like, I try to do the attentive lover thing during foreplay and the aggressive alpha male during intercourse. For the most part in my experiences the guys tend to come at around the same time, but I'm sure that's not always the case. If you want to see hot wife pics, make an account on aff (they're free) and go nuts.

Yes, no anal, and no coming on my wife. Also no bareback play, No pain, but some spanking is ok. Everything else is fine. Most couples have very similar rules.

Not an issue with the rules we have.

Interesting hypothetical. I'd imagine they might snuggle for a bit and then my wife might come over and help out The thing that's much more common is not being able to perform. Being with a new partner with your wife also there can really act on the nerves and it sometimes causes a malfunction. We know a couple where the husband only ever plays with viagra or cialis so he doesn't have to worry about it. I usually take a half viagra for the same reason even though I've never had a problem when it's just me and my wife.

Your wife meets a single guy who she wants to have sex with and tells you everything but there is no girl for you. Is that a problem for you?

It's funny, but that's not that far from what can happen. You meet the people possible at your place or theirs. You have some random discussions on various topics from current affairs to sex and swinging. Next thing you know you're getting it on in the middle of the living room.

Yes we only play together and we're not interested in single males.