I know....the way he tells it there is no downside...

Since you can mate with other women, do you even bother jerking off regularly?

See the thing is your imagination is much worse than real life. It's like doing anything you're anxious about, you start to think about the worst case scenario. Then when it actually happens it's usually not as bad as you thought it would be.

We jumped in feet first, but a lot of couples take it very slowly. They might start by first going to a club and maybe having sex with each other in a big play room or with one other couple present. Once they're comfortable with that, they might transition to some kind of soft swinging, where maybe just the girls play together or maybe you do oral play with another partner, but intercourse with your SO. It's really about moving at the pace you're comfortable with.

Maybe I missed this, but has this improved your sex life with your wife (the part where you just bang her, with no one else in the room)? Made it worse? Neutral?

How much would you charge a paedophile to watch you have sex with a young asian woman in a school girl outfit?

Well again, it's not for everybody and not everyone is comfortable doing full swap. We've found that it's worked for us and the people that we've gotten to know, but that's not to say that it's necessarily for everybody.

Well we don't hook up with couples everyday and my wife isn't always in the mood or might be on her period and doesn't feel like getting me off. So to answer your question I still jerk off when that happens.

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ZOMG... is this Henry17...?

Are/were you yogiblair on P5s?

It's made it better. We're both much more comfortable about telling each other our fantasies. My wife has bought a bunch of sexy new lingerie which is always a bonus. The other weird thing somewhat unrelated to this, is that we both see porn in a completely different light now. It just seems a lot less dirty.

Wat

Can I come to your next swinger party to help you concentrate, CanadianSwinger?

Not sure what that means, so I guess not.

Would I need to look deep into your eyes? Also are you going to bring a very manly porn star?

Have a sense for how long this can last? Do you see it as a sustainable lifestyle? Do you find yourself becoming "addicted" (for lack of a better word) to the swinging?

Also you're at a rate of 1 new woman per month - seems reasonable I think.

Hm - another question - when I bang a new woman I'm very attracted to, it becomes pretty consuming with a singular focus (like I really just want to bang that particular woman for a while).

I guess you're not like that?

Right now we're like kids in a candy store so we're a lot more active. I don't foresee being as active in the future. Plus with the kids getting older we're going to have a lot less time to meet up with new people. We've met some really cool people already so we're hoping to continue having a FWB relationship with them.

Do you ever get emasculated if you pop your load and the other guy goes on plowing your wife for an additional half hour?

Any funny stories? The husband kept looking at my ass, dong, eyes?

Someone pooped the bed, who got Sweet Dee pregnant?

lol wat. good luck getting pozzed and herpes. the sex-for-fun and fun-for-fun part makes sense and it is cool you and your wife are liberal enough to make this work for you but without STD checks you are eventually going to be ****ed, non-literally, by some clowns who don't know what they have.

Ever seen zebra lounge? Also, and this has prolly already been asked, but were one or both of you touched as a child? How long till u divorce? How shi!!y does it feel if the other dude has a much bigger dong or is that not a problem for you? Good luck with this lifestyle though, in the movies it seems to always end in murder.

Why will u have more time as the kids get older? Do you leave them alone while you let another man put his d!ck in your kids' mom's mouth?

What if at showtime the guy unsheathes this mighty **** stick that comes naturally ribbed for her pleasure and vibrates whenever the theme from Jaws is whistled?

What then?

Did you know your wife could squirtle?

Now that you do...

How would you reply if your wife asked you if it was okay to to make it a regular thing with him?


How would you react?


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Are you down with the swirl?

I know you mentioned a bit (post #30) about how you started, but how did you really start? Like the first conversation. Seems like there's a huge possibility of that first conversation going really bad. Most people would hear "hmm, crazy idea, maybe we should think about swinging together with other couples" and think "I wanna **** someone else. I'm tired of ****ing you."

I don't think this is as unusual as people think it is. Cuckolding is a well recognized fetish/fantasy (there's theories about evolutionary advantages because of sperm competition theory, yadda yadda yadda), and open relationships are (slowly) gaining more recognition/acceptance.

He was a poster on that "other" poker site a couple years ago. He and his wife were swingers, also Canadian.

Have you ever climaxed and instinctively zero in on the only male in the room.

Did his pupils dilate?

Did you lose the time?

Swinging was hot in the '70s. Probably a lot less acceptance now. I think the US is much more socially conservative than it was in the 60's through the 90's with the exception of more children born out of wedlock and drunk girls making out at parties.