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Originally Posted by SalmanRushdieFTW
Can't even fathom not being at least somewhat perturbed by the sight of this.
I'm not sure if that makes you more evolved, crazy, or both than me, but man, really would tilt the f out of me to see that. Pretty sure I could not handle that.
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Originally Posted by Anadrol 50
I really think he is more evolved. I would LOVE to hit tons of women, but I know I wouldnt be able to handle my wife getting boffed by other blokes.
See the thing is your imagination is much worse than real life. It's like doing anything you're anxious about, you start to think about the worst case scenario. Then when it actually happens it's usually not as bad as you thought it would be.
We jumped in feet first, but a lot of couples take it very slowly. They might start by first going to a club and maybe having sex with each other in a big play room or with one other couple present. Once they're comfortable with that, they might transition to some kind of soft swinging, where maybe just the girls play together or maybe you do oral play with another partner, but intercourse with your SO. It's really about moving at the pace you're comfortable with.