"it has been more about the social aspect of it."
"For us it's really a social thing."
You emphasize that is it just a social thing and I don't really buy this. There are many other kinds of social activities you could partake in...a rousing game of croquet, couples bowling, square dancing, selling hot dogs, etc...
Just admit it, your favorite activity is blowing loads on other wimmenz chests...this is 2p2 you're talking to, not your wifey